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[–] 9 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

I will say that I don't understand their repeated assertions that sexuality is a choice. I don't see how anyone could believe that unless they're actively repressing something.

But I don't know where that disconnect lies. Is it just a bad faith argument, and they don't really believe that? Do we have a fundamentally different understanding of what sexuality and sexual orientation consist of?

Edit: spelling

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  • [–] 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

    Yea, straight cis guy here. I once got kissed by a dude after I actively flirted with him for like 3 hours at a party once. Honestly, 10/10 best kiss of my life, objectively, but that's how I learned I was definitely straight. Sexuality very much isn't a choice.

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  • [–] 4 points 1 week ago

    I know it's trite to point out republican hypocrisy but anyone else notice how they insist women must be modest because men can't control themselves while also believing sexuality is a choice?

    Well, is it an impulse or a choice then??

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago*

    To be fair, you cant logically explain a position that someone came to have for baseless illogical reasons. They dont have to have a logical repression based reason for believing being gay is a choice if they believe being gay is a choice due to illogical sky daddy issues

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  • [–] 3 points 1 week ago

    Could be a combination of factors. Sexual education is basically nonexistent. One could confuse arousal with sexuality. One could also misconstrue a biological response such as a random erection in inappropriate settings as a sign of sexual orientation. Combined with religious and social pressure, eschewed beliefs can emerge and result in oppressive reactions.

    Wrong conclusions, fear and stubbornness - a dangerous cocktail to be sure...

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