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[–] 10 points 1 month ago (1 child)

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10671218/

Adults who can recall experiences of ultimate freedom to play in their own childhoods find it difficult to give their own children the same room for exploration [10]. In this context, research shows that if children are free to select the level of risk in their play activities, they will frequently choose a higher level than the guiding adult would predict and consider acceptable [11]. A lack of opportunities for risky and challenging play has negative consequences for becoming a healthy adult, such as learning to trust oneself, recognizing one’s limits, and knowing when it is better to ask for support [12].

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago (1 child)

    My dad always said my sister and I both graduated top of the class from the School of Hard Knocks.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 month ago

    My aunt used to say that children’s souls didn’t fully anchor into their bodies until they’d fallen hard on their heads for the first time.

    She’s Hungarian, I don’t know if that’s like a cultural myth to make people feel better about dropping their kids or just her own thing.

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