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How do you feel about yourself in general? (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone)
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[–] 7 points 1 month ago (1 child)

I'm struggling with getting my work done, so not great there. But, I've got a good relationship with my boyfriend, so that's good. Solid 5/10 I did my best?

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  • [–] 3 points 1 month ago* (1 child)

    If you did your best then it's a 10/10 ! No one should be expected to do better than their best !

    Personally to motivate myself, I focus on raising the first derivative of my performance (in a mathematical sense).

    By which I mean : If I'm improving, I want to improve faster, or at least keep improving as fast. If I'm worsening, I want to slow down the worsening until I can turn it around.

    Don't be hard on yourself for failing (or not quite succeeding) today. Life is a journey where all you can really know and choose is how to take the next few steps.

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