I wouldn't say ridiculous, but you're not wrong about them going through tires faster.
Anecdotal but my phev is only 400 pounds heavier than ice vehicles built in the same frame. The energy saver EV tires are rated for 55000 miles vs 60000 for non energy saver version. The upside to the EV is less particulate matter produced by the brakes which get replaced about half as often thanks to Regen.
If anyone has the numbers comparing the gains/losses between the two is love to see them.