We all migrate to smaller websites try not to post outside drawing attention just to hide from the "Ai" crawlers. The internet seems dead except for the few pockets we each know existed away from the clankers
Every SSL certificate is publicly logged(you can see these logs e. g. under crt.sh) and you might be able to read DNS records to find new (sub)domains. The modern internet is too focused on being discoverable and transparent to make hiding an entire service(domain + servers) feasible. But things like example.com/dhusvsuahavag8wjwhsusiajaosbsh are entirely unfindable as long as they are not linked to