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[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 11 months ago (1 child)

You know I daresay that basically your exact comment is what OOP was responding too on reddit.

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[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 11 months ago (1 child)

Wouldn't doubt it.

Some folks get unreasonably mad about what they consider "right".

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[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

That's,,,, exactly what it sounded like you were doing...

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[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 11 months ago (1 child)

I'm pointing to the lead of the team that created it. They get to name it, not me.

I'm also not oddly mad about it like the person replying to me with lots of exclamation points, the user in OPs image, or the person using their alt that has only been used to downvote people they are in conversations with for the past few months.

All I said was the people responsible for it say its a soft g, not a hard g.

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[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

or the person using their alt that has only been used to downvote people they are in conversations with for the past few months.

Wow. You did a lot of research into who has been downvoting you for someone who isn't mad about this...

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[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

Not really, no, I'm playing with the client communication so I can contribute updates, so ive been using a rather fugly web interface I made. Up/downvote activity is visible in that.

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[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 1 point 11 months ago (1 child)

Sure, there's "I can see downvote information" and then there's "I took the effort to check the history of this person who downvoted me and go into the context thread for those downvotes in order to recgonize this other user name being common in them... And I went back far enough to see this trend for months."

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[–] curbstickle@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 11 months ago

When it repeats on certain conversations it becomes a bit obvious, and full history of a user is visible with a single click.

Its really not the effort you think it is.

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