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Challenges meeting new people without an Instagram account (lemmy.zip)
submitted 1 year ago by to c/privacy@lemmy.ml
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I’ve been trying to meet new friends and new people to hang out with so have been going to a lot of social events.

I noticed that everyone seems to ask for my instagram account and when I say I don’t have one that connection kind of dies, and it feels too personal to ask for someone number when I just met them.

I don’t want to create an instagram because of the privacy invasions of meta but I also don’t want to feel left out when trying to make new connections. Anyone have any advice?

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[–] 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It can also be a good conversation starter. Some people genuinely don't know or care about the social media corporations spying on us. You can have some interesting conversations with them.

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  • [–] 26 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Or come across as a weirdo, conspiracy theory, antisocial, tech obsessive nerd.

    I mean, it's not inaccurate, but not maybe how to present initially when you meet someone.

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  • [–] 5 points 1 year ago* (1 child)

    It’s a bit risky, for sure. You just need to express your point in a calm and professional manner. Appeal to common sense or ethics, stick with the facts, and you should be able to find common ground with most people. You’ll be fine as long as you don’t use aggressive language, or go into crazy conspiracies.

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  • [–] 6 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Depends entirely on the audience. The problem with privacy issues is that privacy nihilism sets on quickly, and people with short attention spans and no intrinsic idea of how much they're being ripped off quickly take refuge in the comfort of a no-friction status quo.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 year ago

    Yeah, friction and convenience need to be balanced. Most people don’t even think about where they should draw the line. Sparking conversation about it can be useful, because once you’ve thought about it a little bit, you can make a conscious decision to sacrifice your data for convenience purposes… or slide down the rabbit hole and become a privacy hermit. Either way, making a conscious decision is better than going with the flow.

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