▲ 244 ▼ Man accused of raping, waterboarding girlfriend in her university dorm room for days until she escaped (www.cbsnews.com) submitted 2 years ago by ZeroCool@feddit.ch to c/news@lemmy.world 81 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 17 points 2 years ago (2 children) Because we can’t train other people’s kids- but we can train our own. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] girlfreddy@sh.itjust.works -4 points 2 years ago (2 children) Exactly. So parents should train their sons to not be rapey manipulative violent assholes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rbesfe@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 years ago* Wrap it up everyone, we've stopped rapists by... checks notes being condescending about it on the internet permalink fedilink source parent [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago But you can’t guarantee they’re doing it- so train your daughter to kick some ass. And for the record, I was never trained to not be a rapey manipulative asshole, and I’m none of those things, so let’s stop with the blanket statements. permalink fedilink source parent [+] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -11 points 2 years ago (2 children) It's amazing what you can do if you try. Did you know that modern society has an entire profession based around teaching other people's sons? Like, adults learn for years how to do this, and then we pay those people to teach our sons and everyone else's sons too. Most countries even make it a legal requirement to be taught by someone! It's amazing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) I’m not even bothering with this. It’s too fucking stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, the American school system really is. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Fitting username. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago So is yours permalink fedilink source parent [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I'm so glad the public school system has completely eliminated rape permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) You mean because they made it illegal to talk about sex in schools? Yeah, I'm sure that's not related at all permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I thought you said the existence of schools had eliminated rape, which is it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) No, I said teachers exist, so a lack of parenting shouldn't be the issue. The problem isn't "parents suck", the problem is "we have a way to address this problem, and we are actively stopping it from being effective". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (1 child) The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] girlfreddy@sh.itjust.works -4 points 2 years ago (2 children) Exactly. So parents should train their sons to not be rapey manipulative violent assholes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rbesfe@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 years ago* Wrap it up everyone, we've stopped rapists by... checks notes being condescending about it on the internet permalink fedilink source parent [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago But you can’t guarantee they’re doing it- so train your daughter to kick some ass. And for the record, I was never trained to not be a rapey manipulative asshole, and I’m none of those things, so let’s stop with the blanket statements. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rbesfe@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 years ago* Wrap it up everyone, we've stopped rapists by... checks notes being condescending about it on the internet permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 years ago But you can’t guarantee they’re doing it- so train your daughter to kick some ass. And for the record, I was never trained to not be a rapey manipulative asshole, and I’m none of those things, so let’s stop with the blanket statements. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -11 points 2 years ago (2 children) It's amazing what you can do if you try. Did you know that modern society has an entire profession based around teaching other people's sons? Like, adults learn for years how to do this, and then we pay those people to teach our sons and everyone else's sons too. Most countries even make it a legal requirement to be taught by someone! It's amazing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) I’m not even bothering with this. It’s too fucking stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, the American school system really is. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Fitting username. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago So is yours permalink fedilink source parent [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I'm so glad the public school system has completely eliminated rape permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) You mean because they made it illegal to talk about sex in schools? Yeah, I'm sure that's not related at all permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I thought you said the existence of schools had eliminated rape, which is it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) No, I said teachers exist, so a lack of parenting shouldn't be the issue. The problem isn't "parents suck", the problem is "we have a way to address this problem, and we are actively stopping it from being effective". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (1 child) The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) I’m not even bothering with this. It’s too fucking stupid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, the American school system really is. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Fitting username. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago So is yours permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yes, the American school system really is. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Fitting username. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago So is yours permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Pratai@lemmy.ca 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Fitting username. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago So is yours permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago So is yours permalink fedilink source parent
[–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I'm so glad the public school system has completely eliminated rape permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) You mean because they made it illegal to talk about sex in schools? Yeah, I'm sure that's not related at all permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I thought you said the existence of schools had eliminated rape, which is it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) No, I said teachers exist, so a lack of parenting shouldn't be the issue. The problem isn't "parents suck", the problem is "we have a way to address this problem, and we are actively stopping it from being effective". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (1 child) The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) You mean because they made it illegal to talk about sex in schools? Yeah, I'm sure that's not related at all permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I thought you said the existence of schools had eliminated rape, which is it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) No, I said teachers exist, so a lack of parenting shouldn't be the issue. The problem isn't "parents suck", the problem is "we have a way to address this problem, and we are actively stopping it from being effective". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (1 child) The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) I thought you said the existence of schools had eliminated rape, which is it? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) No, I said teachers exist, so a lack of parenting shouldn't be the issue. The problem isn't "parents suck", the problem is "we have a way to address this problem, and we are actively stopping it from being effective". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (1 child) The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) No, I said teachers exist, so a lack of parenting shouldn't be the issue. The problem isn't "parents suck", the problem is "we have a way to address this problem, and we are actively stopping it from being effective". permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (1 child) The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] thecrotch@sh.itjust.works 0 points 2 years ago* (1 child) The problem is "rapists exist", one of many partial solutions is "teach girls to defend themselves". It's really weird that you seem to think there's only one path forward and seem more interested in assigning blame than lessening the impact of the issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ASeriesOfPoorChoices@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago I think you have me confused with a different lemmitor. Everything I've said has been the exact opposite of what you just wrote. permalink fedilink source parent