I barely remember my own life so I indeed don't hold grudges because I have no idea why I held them or if it was actually my fault that something happened.

Oh yeah, that too.

I do this often, so not sure every ADHD symptom is common to everyone.

I like to turn the grudge inward. Me am my nemesis, bane to others and self

My people.

I didn't need to be called out like this 😓

I mean, i do that too, but it's always something i did rather than something others did to me.

When others are shitty to me, it usually doesn't stick with me for long, because although bad at the moment, it wasn't my fault, so i'm guilt free.

That's definitely my flavor of ADHD.