▲ 20 ▼ Womens weekend positivity... what's a great thing you've done for someone else? (lazysoci.al) submitted 1 year ago by CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [M] to c/WomensStuff@lazysoci.al 10 comments fedilink hide all child comments Got your friend through a rough time? Raising your child well? Mentored someone at work? We wanna know!
[+] khannie@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 child) [removed by mod] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child) Khannie that's such a nice thing to say thanks so much! We are women only though so please don't comment again 😊 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] peaches@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Oh, I did not know we are women only. And how would we know the gender of the poster? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) That's always the tricky bit, but often comments give it away. Tbh 95% of the men who've commented have been fantastically supportive permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] peaches@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 child) So why keep men out of commenting? I mean, it is a public space, they can read it. I agree that they have to be respectful, as we also should, but supportive men are to be celebrated, not silenced. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 1 point 1 year ago I hear you. Overall member feedback is that they prefer a female only space, and realistically, if we allow men then some will be poblematic. We'll have some problems and it'll be harder to moderate the group. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 2 points 1 year ago (1 child) Khannie that's such a nice thing to say thanks so much! We are women only though so please don't comment again 😊 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] peaches@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Oh, I did not know we are women only. And how would we know the gender of the poster? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) That's always the tricky bit, but often comments give it away. Tbh 95% of the men who've commented have been fantastically supportive permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] peaches@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 child) So why keep men out of commenting? I mean, it is a public space, they can read it. I agree that they have to be respectful, as we also should, but supportive men are to be celebrated, not silenced. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 1 point 1 year ago I hear you. Overall member feedback is that they prefer a female only space, and realistically, if we allow men then some will be poblematic. We'll have some problems and it'll be harder to moderate the group. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] peaches@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago (1 child) Oh, I did not know we are women only. And how would we know the gender of the poster? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) That's always the tricky bit, but often comments give it away. Tbh 95% of the men who've commented have been fantastically supportive permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] peaches@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 child) So why keep men out of commenting? I mean, it is a public space, they can read it. I agree that they have to be respectful, as we also should, but supportive men are to be celebrated, not silenced. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 1 point 1 year ago I hear you. Overall member feedback is that they prefer a female only space, and realistically, if we allow men then some will be poblematic. We'll have some problems and it'll be harder to moderate the group. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 3 points 1 year ago (1 child) That's always the tricky bit, but often comments give it away. Tbh 95% of the men who've commented have been fantastically supportive permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] peaches@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 child) So why keep men out of commenting? I mean, it is a public space, they can read it. I agree that they have to be respectful, as we also should, but supportive men are to be celebrated, not silenced. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 1 point 1 year ago I hear you. Overall member feedback is that they prefer a female only space, and realistically, if we allow men then some will be poblematic. We'll have some problems and it'll be harder to moderate the group. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] peaches@lemm.ee 2 points 1 year ago (1 child) So why keep men out of commenting? I mean, it is a public space, they can read it. I agree that they have to be respectful, as we also should, but supportive men are to be celebrated, not silenced. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 1 point 1 year ago I hear you. Overall member feedback is that they prefer a female only space, and realistically, if we allow men then some will be poblematic. We'll have some problems and it'll be harder to moderate the group. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CheeseToastie@lazysoci.al [S] 1 point 1 year ago I hear you. Overall member feedback is that they prefer a female only space, and realistically, if we allow men then some will be poblematic. We'll have some problems and it'll be harder to moderate the group. permalink fedilink source parent