Yes, I know I can't interact with MeanwhileOnGrad on Lemmy.ml because it's blocked, and I can't on Hexbear because sh.itjust.works is blocked. I don't really care for those instances where stalkers post out of context screenshots in order to drum up hate against Communists, or where the admin peddles conspiracy theories about foreign nations pushing "transgender ideology" to radicalize youths against the US.
I tend to defend Hexbear because more often than not I see lies told about it from people who were correctly banned and lied about the reason for banning, or from anticommunists. I make it a point to study history and read Marx and Marxist theory, so when I see fabrications, I try to point them out.
For reference, I don't think many people would want to go along with whatever you want them to if you try to reveal information normally kept private. I don't really care about upvotes or downvotes, or who knows about them, but as a rule of thumb it isn't pleasant to have people try to "expose" you and force an apology, no matter what it is.