▲ 42 ▼ Who Is The Person Bullying You At Work Right Now? How Are You Dealing With This? (lemdit.com) submitted 2 years ago by PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml 52 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] breadsmasher@lemmy.world 37 points 2 years ago (6 children) People bully each other at work? As adults? permalink fedilink source hideshow 12 child comments replies: [–] Then_I_said@lemmy.sdf.org 30 points 2 years ago Yes. All those childhood bullies grow up and get jobs. Many in middle management, where they can bully yo their heart's content permalink fedilink source parent [–] GONADS125@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sounds like you've dodged a toxic work environment so far, hope it stays that way for you! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 2 years ago (2 children) I think some people just dodge the whole bullying experience in general. Different people naturally establish different boundaries and expectations of others. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago It’s all about how you deal with it. Bullies think they can get away with anything, that’s why they do what they do. You have to show them that with you, they won’t. Kick their ass in front of some folks and they’ll never bother you again permalink fedilink source parent [+] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com [S] -29 points 2 years ago True dat permalink fedilink source parent [–] Saraphim@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago Oh shit yeah. It’s worse than highschool. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FARTYSHARTBLAST@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago Sometimes people at least try, depends in part on the workplace and in part on the person they're attempting to bully as to what happens as a result. permalink fedilink source parent [+] dope@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [+] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com [S] -21 points 2 years ago You'd be absolutely astonished what grown adults do in the work place permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Then_I_said@lemmy.sdf.org 30 points 2 years ago Yes. All those childhood bullies grow up and get jobs. Many in middle management, where they can bully yo their heart's content permalink fedilink source parent
[–] GONADS125@lemmy.world 21 points 2 years ago (1 child) Sounds like you've dodged a toxic work environment so far, hope it stays that way for you! permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 2 years ago (2 children) I think some people just dodge the whole bullying experience in general. Different people naturally establish different boundaries and expectations of others. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago It’s all about how you deal with it. Bullies think they can get away with anything, that’s why they do what they do. You have to show them that with you, they won’t. Kick their ass in front of some folks and they’ll never bother you again permalink fedilink source parent [+] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com [S] -29 points 2 years ago True dat permalink fedilink source parent
[–] wesker@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 2 years ago (2 children) I think some people just dodge the whole bullying experience in general. Different people naturally establish different boundaries and expectations of others. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago It’s all about how you deal with it. Bullies think they can get away with anything, that’s why they do what they do. You have to show them that with you, they won’t. Kick their ass in front of some folks and they’ll never bother you again permalink fedilink source parent [+] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com [S] -29 points 2 years ago True dat permalink fedilink source parent
[–] jackoneill@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago It’s all about how you deal with it. Bullies think they can get away with anything, that’s why they do what they do. You have to show them that with you, they won’t. Kick their ass in front of some folks and they’ll never bother you again permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Saraphim@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago Oh shit yeah. It’s worse than highschool. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FARTYSHARTBLAST@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 years ago Sometimes people at least try, depends in part on the workplace and in part on the person they're attempting to bully as to what happens as a result. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] dope@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] PrettyBlackDress@lemdit.com [S] -21 points 2 years ago You'd be absolutely astonished what grown adults do in the work place permalink fedilink source parent