I've actually been wondering about this for a while. Realised this is a really good place to ask!

So when you're dating someone in Malaysia. How often do you like to check in with your partner? How much is too much or too little?

I'm a pretty independent nyet so once every couple days feels about right for me. And maybe share some funny link if it pops up. Any more and I start feeling this slightly smothering obligation hanging in the air. But I've heard a pretty wide range on what people think is normal / makes them insecure. Like some couples wish each other good morning and good night every single day kinda thing. (But also some couples wear 100% matching outfits when they go out. Pls just let me die instead)

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Hmm is it just me, or is there something wrong with our front page?

  • Some of the stories on my Active view are as much as four days old, even though there are tons of posts in New (and most of my Active is 2-4 days old)
  • The sitewide users per week and month seem to be stuck at 67, but I know for a fact there have been new active users. E.g. yesterday I had a comment thread with someone who registered a new account just 20 mins ago and commented, and the number didn't change in that time.
  • If others are seeing this too, I might try doing a reboot or something.
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