[–] 4 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Jeg ville egentlig gerne have 3-4 børn, men vi stopper ved 2. Hverken min kone eller jeg gider et liv der udelukkende drejer sig om at have børn. Så for os handler det om tid. Vi vil også gerne kunne være der for vores børn, og ikke bare overlade dem til Paw Patrole.

Jeg ved ikke helt hvordan boomer generationen gjorde det. Havde en kollega med 10 søskende, og kollegaens mor havde engang sagt, at hun hellere ville have 11 børn i 90'erne end 3 børn i dag.

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  • [–] 1 point 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 child)

    En dag finder jeg nok ud af, hvorfor du blev sur over det med Crasters baby, men der går nok en del år før jeg er igennem de bøger. Måske jeg, og mange andre, har været heldige med ikke at have læst bøgerne, og først blev frustreret da alt logik forsvandt fra GoT.

    God anbefaling med lydbog, men tror jeg lider af auditory processing disorder (APD), så kan slet ikke med lydbøger, det slet ikke fast, haha. Men kunne anbefale det til min kone, hun er hvad end det modsatte er af APD. Hun har virkelig også nørdet universet, men har været lidt skræmt væk af bøgerne.

    Men, det lyder fristende at læse novellerne, og som en rigtig god start. Så kan jeg måske, og kun måske, forstå mere end min kone, når vi ser noget fra det univers.

    Men jeg fik en bogkalender af mine kone i julegave, en bog til hver måned, og jeg er stadig kun ved april, så der går lidt tid før der er plads til at starte på en ny bog.

    Og ja, shit han må være frustreret, og/eller lidt skadefro, fordi det viser også hvor genial han er til at skrive om det univers, og hvor elendige andre er, når de forsøger, haha.

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  • [–] 3 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

    Jeg er slet ikke godt inde i universet. Jeg nød GoT, bortset fra den sidste sæson, men jeg har ikke hjerneceller nok til at holde styr på alle de detaljer, så meget går gabt for mig.

    Jeg startede på sæson 1 sammen med min kone dengang den blev udgivet, men gav hurtigt op. Men gav det så et forsøg mere, da sæson 2 kom ud. Sæson 1 var egentlig udemærket, den blev især båret af et par af karakterene. Sæson 2 var nok, for mange, værre end hvad sæson 3 har budt indtil videre, men sæson 3 er virkelig, virkelig dårligt skrevet. Den bliver kun båret af seje drage scener.

    Og enig med Egg og Dunk, men den irriterede mig en lille smule. Afsnittene var for korte og endte altid med en cliff hanger, der hurtigt var forløst i det næste afsnit, og så skete der ligesom ikke så meget mere, før den næste cliff hanger kim. Men virkelig god kemi mellem Egg og Dunk og utrolig behagelig serie at se, pånær alt det afføring og opkast de mener man skal se i hvert fald.

    Men det har givet mig lyst til at komme i gang med bøgerne. De står allerede på hylden, men jeg har aldrig fået åbnet nogen af R. R. Martins bøger.

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  • [–] 4 points 2 weeks ago

    Jeg kan umiddelbart ikke anbefale at se den, og replikkerne er også blevet reduceret til et sæbeopera niveau hvor alle bare råber på hinanden.

    CGI'en er enormt imponerende, men det er ligesom ikke nok til at hive serien op på niveau.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (7 children)

    Vi ser House of The Dragons herhjemme, og vi er splittet omkring serien. Min kone synes den seneste sæson har været fed, og jeg synes den er ret dårlig. Især afsnit 3 gjorde helt fysisk ondt at se. Der var så meget galt med det afsnit, hvor man på bedste Netflix manér understreger alle pointer med et kæmpe neon skilt "KARAKTEREN FØLER NOGET BESTEMT HER", fordi man åbenbart ikke kan skrive sig ud af det, eller tror seerne ikke selv kan regne det ud.

    Som kontrast så vi House of Guinness dagen efter, med et afsnit hvor mange af de samme pointer skulle leveres, og her turde man godt at stole på, at seerne selv kan udlede at en karakter føler noget bestemt, uden at det skal understreges med akavet underlægningsmusik og kameraeffekter.

    Iøvrigt en okay serie, som er baseret på virkelig hændelser om Guinness familien. Den skal lige i gang, men det bliver aldrig helt stor kunst, og virker som om serien kunne have været meget federe, hvis man havde taget sig mere tid til at udvikle karaktererne, men fantastisk skuespil af protagonisten Arthur (Anthony Boyle).

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  • [–] 5 points 2 weeks ago

    Jeg kan virkelig anbefale det seneste Muse album, The Wow! Signal. De har lavet en sang med Ellis Goulding og hun gør det vanvittigt godt. Jeg skulle lige vende mig til den sang, men den har virkelig groet på mig.

    Charlie xcx udgav et nyt album i februar, Wuthering Heights og har man ikke hørt det endnu, så kan jeg virkelig anbefale at høre albummet fra start til slut.

    Ellers mangler jeg lidt at opdage nyt/gammel musik. Det er lidt det samme musik der kører igen og igen.

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  • [–] 14 points 3 weeks ago* (3 children)

    Apparently I'm completely ignorant in this topic. Why is the concept of landlords so bad? It is not because I believe they are good,I have just never thought much of it, and I've lived in multiple rented apartments. What's the alternative? Genuine question here. Should the apartments be owned by the municipality/government? Or is the idea that housing will be so cheap, if the properties aren't used for investment that everyone can afford to buy themselves?

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  • submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by to c/autism@lemmy.world
     

    Apologies for the title, but I did not now how to formulate myself shortly, haha, and English is not my first language.

    We are a family of 4, and autism has suddenly become very salient in our daily life.

    My wife and I are both in our mid thirties, and we both got diagnosed with ADHD within the last two years, and now the suspicion of a autism diagnose suddenly came lurking as well. I think it's a quite normal progression, as the ADHD medication have had a lot of positive effects, and made us more calm, which might have given more space for our autistic traits to stand more out.

    We've suspected our daughter of having ADHD since she was a toddler and perhaps also being gifted. She's blowing our minds all the time by her reasoning capabilities.

    It's a bit unrelated to my post, but my daughter is stubborn as hell, and has always been like that. Her speach development as delayed quite a bit, but when she was two years old, she got angry with my wife and said to her: "If your mom, when you was little, did not listen to what you said, you would also have gotten angry". While she was complete red in her face, both feet solid placed in the ground, and her arms in her sides and tears falling down her face. Mind. blown.. That was so impressive of her. In general she seems more emotional intelligent than many of the adults I know. We've also taught her a lot about emotions, to help her navigate her intense inner-self.

    My wife is kind of the same way, and every day my wife have this mirror put up in front of her, and it's quite intense.

    We "blamed" our daughter's intelligence for her intensity, her repetitive role plays, her justice sensitivity and insane memory. But we are now seing that many of her traits are more likely to be caused by autism.

    My wife is in a study group where there are others with autism and one day they got to talk about it, and they were surprised that she did not think she had autism. I started reading up on autism, and I read this AuDHD book that compared many of the shared traits between ADHD and autism, and it became clear that my wife's challenges are much more related to autism than ADHD.

    I might also have autism, but I don't think I am as far out on the spectrum, and it is not really affecting my life I same negative way, as my wife. She's always had issues with anxiety, depression, burnout, low self-esteem, more burnout, sensory overload and she fears she will never be able to hold a job, which she has not done in the last 6 years.

    We are not in a financial situation where we have the option to get professional help, but I've always been good at education myself on topics we've been struggling with, but somehow I'm kinda of overwhelmed, as I think it is really difficult to find reliable materials on autism in girls.

    What I'm looking for is advise on books, educational material, your experiences, kind words, that everything will be alright, and what to do from here.

    We are in the process of involving professionals for our daughter. Our municipality have this free service where you can talk with a psychologist about your children and they can help with support in kindergarten and later on when she starts in school. But, I prefer to also find out as much as possible about autism myself, and also in order to help my wife and our everyday life. We are stressed and kind of burned out all the time, and we need to do something to help ourselves, as this does not seem sustainable.

    Hope it all makes sense. I'm sleep deprived and my brain is not really functioning at the moment.

    submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by to c/fedditdk@feddit.dk
     

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