[–] [S] 5 points 2 years ago

Yeah i had to search the term to find an english translation for it as it's not my first language and the search results felt a bit off to me... But I'm currently reading a book on it and it really has helped me realize where most of my thought and behavior patterns come from and how to learn to be a better version of myself. It might not be for everyone but it helps me

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  • [–] 0 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    But how do I learn to start checking if I'm dreaming while I'm dreaming? I have an embarrasing and frustrating reoccurring theme in my dreams and I'd love to know how to stop it when it happens

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  • [–] 1 point 3 years ago

    It's my third week of summer vacation and haven't really left the house that much other than walking the dog and some planned activities. Mostly just me and my husband together but I'm noticing I'm kinda getting fed up with just being around one person 24/7. (i love him don't get me wrong but everything in moderation)

    I'm just finding myself more and more thinking about if I had friends who lived closer, it'd be great to just hit them up and go for a coffee or something. All of my close friends I'm comfortable asking to hang out on short notice live so far that it requires planing days, if not weeks, ahead to hang out.

    Haven't made a single friend on my own since moving to this town 4 years ago, it's so difficult.

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    I don't really use social media at all. I do have accounts on instagram and Facebook but only use them to occasionally post my art but never any personal posts, while most of the people i know are borderline addicted to sharing every moment of their life online.

    But I've been thinking lately that maybe i should be doing more of that. I think it would be easier to talk to people online and then I'd be more comfortable talking to them face to face.

    But on the other hand.. I feel a bit weird to start posting personal posts suddenly when everyone knows me as someone who doesn't really do that. I generally have a hard time doing something out of what people expect from me.

    This is a bit of a ramble. Anyone have a similar experience/thought process? How do you make friends??