submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by to c/homelab@lemmy.ml
 

I'm just going to be vulnerable for a minute here. I met the first person in real life who had similar server-y linux-y obsessions to me and we'd send eBay links of systems to drool over to eachother. They ended up being a terrible person but hid it from me pretty well until they couldn't anymore and now I no longer have someone to chat with about those things.

So um, I guess I'm open for applications for the position of "nerdy friend who I nerd too hard with about network infrastructure and Linux packages" now

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[–] 19 points 3 years ago (2 children)
  • [–] 10 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    There's an xkcd for everything

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  • [–] 3 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    It there an xkcd for coming into the comments and saying there’s and xkcd for everything?

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  • [–] 13 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    Your public key is no longer in my ~/.ssh/authorized_keys :(

    That's a serious breakup, can't say I've even had anyone that close. Finding the right friends is like finding the right distro and it hurts when someone shows you an ugly part of them (ahem Red Hat).

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  • [–] [S] 5 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    It was just access to a VPS we had a couple of minor things running on so nothing too big, but still its a very real action that says "this is over" so hitting Ctrl+O then Ctrl+X was pretty heavy

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  • [–] 9 points 3 years ago (2 children)

    You don’t use vim? I do not see how anyone could be friends with you.

    jk, of course.

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  • [–] 4 points 3 years ago

    I had a similar, we'd kept an IRC channel open for years, then he went off the deep end with conspiracies and I cut contact. I miss my friend but that friend was a chill software geek, not the rage addicted lunatic who took his place.

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  • [–] 3 points 3 years ago*

    It sucks but make sure to remove every means of potential attacks

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  • [–] 3 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    There is no other place like 127.0.0.1

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  • [–] 2 points 3 years ago

    Brutal. However, there's plenty of us who fit that bill here, I'm sure.

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  • [–] 2 points 3 years ago

    How nerdy you talking? Because I was tempted to get this, then I saw the price. https://shop.telegeography.com/products/2023-submarine-cable-map-free-shipping

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  • [–] 2 points 3 years ago

    True friendship is indeed to trade ssh keys.

    What kind of hardware are we talking about here. Tiny boxes, big boxes? Disks, networking?

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  • [–] 2 points 3 years ago

    Curious about what you discovered about them and how they were hiding it

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  • [–] 2 points 3 years ago

    Someone can never have enough nerdy friends just you do have to be rather selective...I'm open for nerdy friends 😂

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  • [–] 1 point 3 years ago

    Im sorry that this happened to you. It sucks to learn that someone isn’t who you thought they are after you trust them.

    I’m a network engineer by trade and a Linux enthusiast, and happily apply for the position 😊

    I hope that one day there will be a larger community of network engineers on Lemmy, however it seems that most did not make the migration off of that old site.

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  • [–] 1 point 3 years ago

    Sorry to hear that. I've had a similar thing happen before, it sucks.

    I'm not super dependable tbh, but I always make an effort to communicate as much as I can with folks. Feel free to hmu on DM, we can connect on other platforms if you wanna.

    Otherwise, best of luck, you'll find a new buddy :)

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  • [–] 1 point 3 years ago

    What made them so terrible?

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago

    If you wanna chat, you can contact me on matrix (if i have it set up right): @jsnfwlr:matrix.home.phalacee.com

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  • [–] 1 point 3 years ago

    Thats a shame!

    Once upon a time, me and a few buddies had a pretty nice BGP setup going between a few sites.

    He maintained two sites, I maintained both my home network, and a cloud-based router, and had my other friend connected up.

    It was a pretty sweet setup. iBGP routing, we had a form of dynamic multipoint VPN.

    Was a fun experiment. But, good things can't last forever. So... my network is the only piece left.

    And- I don't trust anyone else enough to setup any access at all.

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  • [–] 0 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    I'm coming up on 45 years being friends with a fellow nerd and we talk about all sorts of things that I have nobody else I could talk to about that stuff. I'm pretty thankful and I'm pretty sure that it'll end with one of us dying.

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  • [–] 0 points 3 years ago (1 child)

    I don't want access to your server but I'm more than willing to chit chat Linux and FLOSS stuff

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