In my experience, nevermind masking. "Just be yourself," is just a straight up feel good white lie that society likes to espouse. Society and groups tend to value comformity. It's right up there with like, The Power of Friendship! When the reality is a lot of friendships don't survive leaving the school or workspace where they started, or if someone starts a family. It can sometimes take a very serious and concerted effort to try and maintain a friendship.
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