I mean, some people just rub other people the wrong way. Like with cats and dogs. Cultural differences, aesthetics, body language and the reflexive responses, natural aversions... they all play a role in a first impression.

Politeness is about getting past those initial impulses and giving one another an opportunity to prove they're more than what they appear at first blush. And about dampening your own eccentricities so as not to startle or offend inadvertently. But politeness is a learned skill, while reflexive responses are innate. People make whole careers out of diplomacy and decorum. You shouldn't feel bad if you fumble it occasionally and you should be willing to give others an opportunity to redefine themselves if they come off clumsy or inept.

See, I also agree that some people are worthless human trash, but there needs to be a healthier way for us to frame this for ourselves right?

Just like a tree produces an imperfect and sour fruit on occasion, nature sometimes births people who do not fit into the cultural tapestry of our world. Maybe the tree lacked sunlight, or the soil lacked nutrients, or maybe just unlucky genetics. Maybe the kid lacked loving parents, or grew up in a war zone, or maybe just unlucky genetics.

Either way, I don’t hate the fruit. I just try to avoid them and toss them to the side when I accidentally bite into one.

HOLD ON WHAT

Huh

It's not funny. But the rule is 'anything goes'. But but I come here for funny. And its not funny.

counter productive because in the end none of it means anything

In life giving a shit about what others think of you is illogical.