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[–] 143 points 1 year ago* (3 children)

X, Facebook, threads, Instagram, Whatsapp, Amazon Prime, Reddit

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  • [–] 65 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    How can you convince anyone to get off these ? Everyone I've showed lemmy to is terrified it's a virus, and what chat platforms are there besides messenger that we can convince anyone to go to? Maybe I need smarter friends, lol.

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  • [–] 31 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    It is a very big ask... For chat i moved to Signal and convinced my closest relatives and friends to humor me and get the app, but they didn't let go of Whatsapp. It's lonely but i enjoy the quietness, and do not miss the endless groups!

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  • [–] 13 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    One of my phone browsers has warned me that one Lemmee instance is a scam, that doesn’t help if it is happening to others.

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Name and shame. Which browser and which instance?

    And is it just something like an SSL error (i.e. the instance screwing up), or is it specifically some kind of anti-Lemmy disinformation?

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  • [–] 19 points 1 year ago (8 children)

    Amazon Prime is the only one that's been hard for me to kick...

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    [–] 69 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    A lot of the niche content I like is still on reddit, however I like the people and experience over here on Lemmy more.

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    [–] 55 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Reddit isn’t as bad as Twitter. Though it’s heading that way. But there is an alternative that is 90% as good.

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  • [–] 34 points 1 year ago (6 children)

    What’s annoying is how stubborn they are about moving over to Lemmy. I know it’s not super straightforward, but it’s also not nearly as complicated as they make it sound.

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    [–] 47 points 1 year ago

    If you're still on Lemmy... Welcome! The more the merrier!

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  • [–] 45 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I'm only on reddit to bring people here. Because we do have cookies.

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    [–] 32 points 1 year ago (10 children)

    I use Twitter and reddit for porn, nothing else anymore. People/communities I follow are ghost towns elsewhere. Everytime I point this out, people get butthurt, yet none of them link to their porn profile.

    Post the (adorable, lanky, femboy, who has glasses and a thick uncut cock) porn, and as the saying goes, 'they will cum'.

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    [–] 23 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    Or use Amazon (I'm guilty), or shop at Walmart (sometimes guilty, but not often), or shop at Target, use Tiktok, use Facebook (reunion coordination only - but still guilty, I guess), use PayPal (very guilty), use LinkdIn, use Google (guilty).

    It's really difficult to live a modern life, without being guilty of using anything exploitative of something. Of course, all the things (and many more) mentioned above are made to make people reliant on them by design.

    Amazon operated in the red for over 7 years, before turning any profit, often selling and shipping items for a lower cost than they purchased the items for. But after that 7 years, they'd driven much of their competition out of business. Now there are fewer choices with regard to finding some items, because Amazon drove everyone out of business. The cheaper prices on Amazon? Nothing like what they used to be - they don't have to compete.

    How many small towns have Walmart as virtually the only place to shop and/or the only employer?

    It's very important in our modern, separated society, for people to return to basics....get to know your neighbors, stick together, become friends, and help one another out. Reddit used to really drive me nuts, in the work-related subreddits, where everyone used to say, "Your co-workers are not your friends." I wondered if many people ever looked past that, to ask if that's how HR wants things. How do you ever achieve solidarity in the workplace, when you walk in with that attitude? I've certainly had my share of hated co-workers, but much more often, I have been friends with many of them. Co-workers are a great resource to vent, problem solve, find out what's going on behind the scenes, and if there are problems - a great co-worker can be honest and let me know if I might be the problem, or not.

    But, separated and isolated within our own little tribes/families, too busy working too many hours, for too little money, trying to keep up with too many financial obligations, is exactly how they get us exactly where they want us.

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    [–] 21 points 1 year ago*

    Twitter got abandoned 1 month after the fascist bought it. Account deleted 6 months ago.

    Reddit is on transition right now. I'm still checking it, but the time i spend there is much less, since i made a Lemmy account.

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    [–] 20 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I just occasionally go back to shill for Lemmy. Pretty sure that hurts them more than helps. :D

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    [–] 16 points 1 year ago (7 children)

    Things i have stopped using- X, Facebook, Instagram, Reddit, Coca Cola, Pepsi, Lays, McDonalds, Burger King, Netflix, Walmart. Things where i have minimized consumption - Amazon, Best Buy, Steam, YouTube. Things where I am tied in and can't make a difference- Android, Windows, AWS, Gmail, Intel/AMD, MS Office (official productivity tools). Actually i don't mind going minimalistic to F over US companies.

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    [–] 16 points 1 year ago (5 children)

    I literally just got permabanned from Reddit after over 13 years and 200k karma! Lol

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    [–] 16 points 1 year ago (4 children)

    Look...I know we all hate reddit cause they kicked like half of us for no good reason but like....spez doesnt even compare to how evil Musk is

    Then again....X is arguably still a better social media platform than reddit is...

    Ok nevermind

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  • [–] 16 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    Spez is only less evil because he doesn't have enough money to be in the oligarch club. He's just one of their toadies. He'd absolutely be the same way if anyone actually gave him the power they have.

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  • [–] 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

    Reddit has been about soft power for a while now. Ever since they scapegoated Ellen Pao, imo. They’ve been changing things relatively slowly compared to Twitter in terms of enshitification, and being more careful about who they piss off at any given time. They’ve become more emboldened ever since they banned 3rd party apps, as now they are allowing bot farms and bad actors that commented on behalf of the admins.

    Reddit could be seeing tons of users leaving the site daily, but they’re for sure replacing them with bots to paint a better picture and drive engagement. The same thing applies to Twitter as well. It’s why on BlueSky for instance, I don’t see ragebait dominating my feed due to the more robust moderation tools compared to Twitter and Reddit.

    Lemmy has avoided most bots due to the manual approval processes from what I can see. I think Lemmy should strongly consider implementing BlueSky’s moderation tools though.

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    [–] 15 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    If you’re still online…

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  • [–] 14 points 1 year ago (1 child)

    I didn't even use Twitter before the nazi bought it

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    [–] 13 points 1 year ago (2 children)

    I actually said “bye Fash-licia” to Reddit last week. I thought about trying to get banned for something stupid, just for the story. But instead I just quietly deleted the account.

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    Well, I still wouldn't consider using Reddit to be near as bad as using Shitter.

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