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[–] 69 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Ain't no fucking way Indiana is in the "Nice" category

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  • [–] 46 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    Bruh, I moved out here two years ago, and holy shit! These are the most miserable, hateful, rude, nasty, violent, stupid, lazy, and just all-around shitty people I have encountered in my life. Really, damn near everywhere I go in this state, I observe this behavior. I'm originally from Michigan, but I've been all over the US and really have not been anywhere like this.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I saw more Confederate battle flags around Indianapolis than I did in Atlanta. Fuck Indianapolis.

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  • [–] 55 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (4 children)

    I get that this is basically a politcal compass meme overlayed on a map (and also that this is in cartography anarchy), but here's how I'd actually divide things up based on basically 0 practical experience:

    Acts nice, is nice: West Coast (WA, OR, CA, HI) (WA might have to move down to the next category if they're feeling surly)

    Acts mean, is nice: Northeast (ME, NH, VT, MA, RI, CT, NY, PA, NJ, MD, DE)

    Acts nice, is mean: Southeast (AR, LA, KY, TN, MS, AL, WV, VA, NC, SC, GA, FL), Midwest (ND, SD, NE, KS, MN, IA, MO, WI, IL, MI, IN, OH), and Alaska

    Acts mean, is mean: The rest (ID, MT, WY, NV, UT, CO, AZ, NM, OK, TX)

    "Acts nice, is mean" still makes up a large part of the country, but "Acts mean, is mean" has been trending up for about a decade now.

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  • [–] 37 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    The colder the weather gets, the more we tend to be nice. Its just natural when you're living in a state/province where breaking down on the side of the road in winter can mean death.

    And I'm only half kidding. I do honestly believe that a shared experience of harsh winters creates empathy. Same reason Nordic countries are nice to each other mostly as well.

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago

    I think there is some truth to this.

    When I lived in an apartment, many times I would shovel my neighbor's parking spot if it looked like they were working late during a snow storm. There's nothing worse than coming home after a long day to three feet of snow you have to shovel immediately.

    Or helping someone whose car is stuck in snow and can't drive away. We've all helped at least one person by giving them a push.

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    That actually tracks

    Look at the "mean" spots: summers get over 110-120 in a lot of those places

    Seem and are mean is the SW, where we keep death valley

    You KNOW people are bigger assholes when it's hot. We ALL do

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  • [–] 30 points 2 years ago

    As a Canadian, you can extend the top two up to us and it would still mostly fit.

    I'm on the "acts mean, is nice" side in Ontario, and you all can get fucked 🖕

    Let me help you with carrying your groceries, fuck face.

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  • [–] 23 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    The bible belt / coal belt is not nice.

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  • [–] [S] 16 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    C'mon, the coal belt is the definition of acts mean, is nice.

    Bible belt is peak 'southern hospitality' though, sweet words covering a spit in the face.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago* (2 children)

    The coal belt is filled with abandoned elderly, selfish assholes in lifted trucks, religious extremists, and white supremacists.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago*

    "Well how you doin', Honey!?"

    in her mind

    Who the fuck is this goddamn oreo ass tramp walking into my fucking store with her fuckin low cut, 5 year old torn up-ass Vans on and her fuckin tattery-ass-lookin-ass bitch-ass fleece hoodie?

    "That'll be $6.34, Sug!"

    "You have a nice day, now!"

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  • [–] 20 points 2 years ago

    Near as I can tell since moving back, being "Iowa nice" means "be white and republican and talk down to everyone else" so no, more like acts nice, is mean for us.

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  • [–] 19 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    “The entire Midwest disliked that”

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  • [–] 18 points 2 years ago*

    My experience having lived across the US has been closer to https://youtu.be/u3qJlWQNNxA?si=EU_dgGLT-vWgmNXy - I haven't met a kind ("actually nice") person in Northern California who grew up there.

    Edit to add: err, except my wife of course.

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  • [–] 14 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Who ever made this has never been to Minnesota. Or Iowa for that matter.

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    [–] 13 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    PNW should be: acts nice, is scared

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  • [–] 18 points 2 years ago* (6 children)

    Quick context, if you ask for directions in Seattle, people will gladly help, but you will see the terror in their eyes that they have to socialize with someone they don't know.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    From the south, now in the PNW. Can confirm, I’ve probably accidentally scared the shit out of so many Seattlites just by being friendly

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    [–] 13 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    As a young Tulsan on my first tech support job, it took me ages to figure out that Yanks aren't as mean as rattlesnakes, they just talk that way.

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  • [–] 12 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    This map applies to every individual city as well, just make sure "acts mean is mean" is the rich quadrant of the city and the rest will map nicely.

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Alaska: Fuck off and leave us alone.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    Im a european, been to san francisco once, nicest fucking people ive ever met.

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  • As someone who used to live in new York, can confirm. New Yorkers come off as rude but usually they just have places to be, when they're not trying to get somewhere they're quite nice.

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    This is oddly quite accurate

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