It's not even "chose an instance". This is what my journey has been:
- Chose an instance
- Write an essay about why you wanted that one 3 never her reply, repeat 1 and 2
- Get access, then instance goes offline. Repeat 1 and 2
- Get another instance. They then bock piracy communities. Repeat 1 and 2
- Land in lemm.ee.
- Wait until I can block instances to get rid of nuances (everybody knows who I'm talking about)
Now try to get your non tech friends on board.