▲ 1020 ▼ Sorry to be a bother... (lemmy.world) submitted 2 years ago by The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world to c/memes@sopuli.xyz 122 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[+] Anticorp@lemmy.world -7 points 2 years ago (5 children) Not everyone feels drained by talking to people. I'd say most people don't. Some people, a lot of people actually, get energized talking with people. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 30 points 2 years ago (1 child) Not everyone feels drained by talking to people And those people wouldn't be wearing this pin. People that feel drained from socializing feel that way with everybody. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kalothar@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago I get energized from conversation and would totally wear this pin I think it would be funny to slide it up throughout a social event permalink fedilink source parent [–] BastingChemina@slrpnk.net 24 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think you described quite accurately the difference between introverts and extroverts. Extroverts gain energy with social interaction whereas it costs energy for introverts to be in these social interactions. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] a2part2@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Something something social vampirism? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago (1 child) Two extroverts talking would be both charging without anyone being drained. Masturbatory vampirism. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Hehehe. Thanks for the chuckle! permalink fedilink source parent [–] myplacedk@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) I believe scientific studies say it's somewhere around half of each. The reason you don't see that, is because it's considered socially unacceptable to get socially drained, so we learn to hide it, usually from very young. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] GojuRyu@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Yeah I was very ready to disagree with it being most people as that is far from my experience. I also come from one of those northern european countries that others describe as cold and closed of because we have a much more introvert aligned culture. And the fact that I’m someone who gets drained probably also biases my sample to more like minded people. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) This pin is not made for them. What is your point? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) The point is that you don't need to think you're special, or have some unique arrogance to think that you don't drain people's batteries. Younger extroverts have no awareness that there are people who get drained through human interactions. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago Ok then we are on the same boat and I misunderstood you permalink fedilink source parent [+] Mandy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CileTheSane@lemmy.ca 30 points 2 years ago (1 child) Not everyone feels drained by talking to people And those people wouldn't be wearing this pin. People that feel drained from socializing feel that way with everybody. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kalothar@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago I get energized from conversation and would totally wear this pin I think it would be funny to slide it up throughout a social event permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Kalothar@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 years ago I get energized from conversation and would totally wear this pin I think it would be funny to slide it up throughout a social event permalink fedilink source parent
[–] BastingChemina@slrpnk.net 24 points 2 years ago (1 child) I think you described quite accurately the difference between introverts and extroverts. Extroverts gain energy with social interaction whereas it costs energy for introverts to be in these social interactions. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] a2part2@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Something something social vampirism? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago (1 child) Two extroverts talking would be both charging without anyone being drained. Masturbatory vampirism. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Hehehe. Thanks for the chuckle! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] a2part2@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Something something social vampirism? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago (1 child) Two extroverts talking would be both charging without anyone being drained. Masturbatory vampirism. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Hehehe. Thanks for the chuckle! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago (1 child) Two extroverts talking would be both charging without anyone being drained. Masturbatory vampirism. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Hehehe. Thanks for the chuckle! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ByteJunk@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Hehehe. Thanks for the chuckle! permalink fedilink source parent
[–] myplacedk@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (1 child) I believe scientific studies say it's somewhere around half of each. The reason you don't see that, is because it's considered socially unacceptable to get socially drained, so we learn to hide it, usually from very young. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] GojuRyu@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Yeah I was very ready to disagree with it being most people as that is far from my experience. I also come from one of those northern european countries that others describe as cold and closed of because we have a much more introvert aligned culture. And the fact that I’m someone who gets drained probably also biases my sample to more like minded people. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] GojuRyu@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago Yeah I was very ready to disagree with it being most people as that is far from my experience. I also come from one of those northern european countries that others describe as cold and closed of because we have a much more introvert aligned culture. And the fact that I’m someone who gets drained probably also biases my sample to more like minded people. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) This pin is not made for them. What is your point? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) The point is that you don't need to think you're special, or have some unique arrogance to think that you don't drain people's batteries. Younger extroverts have no awareness that there are people who get drained through human interactions. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago Ok then we are on the same boat and I misunderstood you permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Anticorp@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) The point is that you don't need to think you're special, or have some unique arrogance to think that you don't drain people's batteries. Younger extroverts have no awareness that there are people who get drained through human interactions. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago Ok then we are on the same boat and I misunderstood you permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ClassifiedPancake@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago Ok then we are on the same boat and I misunderstood you permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Mandy@sh.itjust.works 1 point 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent