Huh, now I have you projecting, too?

Sadly, my country doesn't let 18 year old women get free drinks at bars due to age restrictions, and the only people I hear giving free vacations to girls tend to be Republican Representatives from Florida trafficking them for sex, but I have talked to at least 2 girls before and, you'll never believe this (and I know the previous statement was already beyond your imagination), they aren't fans of being treated like sex objects.

There's your first steps!