my GF’s grandma that had to live through it is literally a family member of a person I know, I didn't want to explose too much info, and given your reaction, I shouldn't have. All it went was from low context to medium context, the info being the same.
It' seems like you have squared me as a white male American conservative (Jordan Peterson wtf...), so there's no point in discussing it more. All I'm going to reveal is that I'm from Spain, and my partner was born in Ukraine, which I'm sure can be extracted from my post history so there's no point in hiding that.
Also, quite funny that when I raise my points about your own quote, you attack my personal experience and call me a liar.
you might even get a real girlfriend
:) Anyway, have a nice day.