HydraulicMonkey comments on What was a kink or activity you were the most excited to try?

This is probably mine too. 0 to fisting while fighting back was so intense, just knowing I couldn't stop it. I don't even really like the fisting (when the guy pops his hand back out it is unsettlingly close feeling to childbirth) but he knew it was the far edge of what I am willing to do. We didn't work it all out ahead of time as we had a lot of experience with each other.

It is both hot and sexy and also upsetting and cathartic and just overall a peak experience.

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[–] HydraulicMonkey@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 child)

That's awesome. Though I may have not made it clear, I am the aggressor.

Many women I have spoken to love the catharsis of the scenes, so that definitely seems to be common to the kink.

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[–] RBWellsV23@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 2 years ago (1 child)

Yeah I am glad there are guys into it, and in an ethical way - I can't do the other side, someone who says no just shuts me down, turns me right off. But for me saying 'please no' is even hotter than 'please' somehow. I gave up on trying to understand or fix it once I figured out that submissive was not equal to passive at all, wasn't some form of laziness.

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[–] HydraulicMonkey@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Fix it? There is nothing to fix. And understanding it is easy, it's awesome.

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