Hey thanks man I have followed your advice and reverted back the Ubuntu fstab ... I the added the separate boot partition in a better way and now I can finally boot back into Ubuntu without the recovery mode ...
I noticed that in most tutorials they will generate the fstab before mounting the /boot/efi partition I checked my ubuntu fstab wich also has the /boot/efi entry so I mounted it before generating the fstab but still nothing changes (yeah I also fixed the mount point to /boot/efi)
I feel like im going nowhere since eventhow I find a way to make os prober recognize arch and the other way around I still can't see the entry in the boot screen which remains the same(probably the original ubuntu one with my aesthetics customization) is it possible that I have somehow generated a copy of some file maybe the grub.conf which remains unmodified ? I'm glad it didn't get worse but I will be happy to see some positive changes ... Thanks for your help