Just curious...
Do you play on a multiplayer server? If yes, what kind of?
Do you use a modloader on your client?
Are you playing vanilla or modded? (I consider QoL mods like MiniHUD or Xaero's Map almost vanilla but ofcourse not everyone agrees)
I play:
on a whitelisted SMP (I had to look that up.. Survival Multiplayer) which is almost Vanilla (you can use a Vanilla client) - aimed at adult players (25+)
Ocassionally single player just to try out different modded versions or things (I might play create for 2 days and then leave it at that)
Currently playing on a members-only Create server
Oh yeah, only Java. Never played bedrock. I tried for 5 minutes on my phone and it's not for me.
I have an ARM-based VPS on Oracle cloud and play SMP on it with couple of my friends
Mainly vanilla with some small QoL mods (Mob-heads / invisible item frames / bundles)
I have rules on the server where the gameplay is deliberately slowed down or made harder. Such as no nether roof travel / no trading diamond tools / no raid farm