▲ 661 ▼ Yes I actually had an argument about this (midwest.social) submitted 3 years ago by Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social to c/memes@lemmy.ml 86 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 98 points 3 years ago* (5 children) I just came back home and went to go say hi to my dad permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 10 child comments replies: [–] snooggums@kbin.social 69 points 3 years ago (1 child) So like taking off a hat indoors kind of expectation for him? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dingus@lemmy.ml 23 points 3 years ago (2 children) Quakers don't take their hats off for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) I'm just going to pretend you said "Qakers take their hat off for no man" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 years ago Death by technicality, a classic blunder. permalink fedilink source parent [–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 12 points 3 years ago (1 child) You're not wrong. My nan died the other day, fucking guy didn't even take of his cap as they carried her through the kitchen to the backdoor. The box of Zatteran's at least bowed its head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 8 points 3 years ago Little Debbie was grinning something awful though. permalink fedilink source parent [–] 16mmPrecisely@mander.xyz 27 points 3 years ago (1 child) I need more details. Let's get to the bottom of this. How long had it been been since you arrived home? Were you standing or sitting down? Holding any drinks? How heavy is your backpack? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dmention7@lemm.ee 35 points 3 years ago (3 children) Yeah I feel like we're getting somewhere now. At first I was on OP's side, but now I'm imagining them like sitting on the sofa drinking a Diet Dr Pepper while watching Judge Judy reruns and half carrying on a conversation with their dad while wearing their backpack. Then after Judge Judy renders her verdict, dad is suddenly like "why are you wearing a backpack?" Then OP gets defensive and weird, and finally we find ourselves at the situation in the meme. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 34 points 3 years ago (2 children) That would be pretty weird if if I did that. But in case anyone is curious, It was a few minutes after I had just gotten home from college and went inside the house and then went over to my dad to say hi before going to my room. He immediately asked me why I had my backpack on and I told him that I had just gotten back from college. It was at that moment he told me that wearing a backpack while talking to someone was weird. My Mom later walked in and asked what we were yelling about and she then started laughing because of how stupid the conversation was. I was standing the entire time we were arguing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] dmention7@lemm.ee 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Point of clarification: were you wearing your backpack with both straps on, one strap on your shoulder, or across your chest? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) Both straps permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 years ago Can you try it with one strap and report back? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Gork@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (2 children) More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ki77erb@lemmy.world 1 point 3 years ago Is this a first time occurrence? Has there ever been any other indication of your dad's discomfort around people wearing backpacks? There might be some history here that you're not aware of. Some past bad experience he had. A kind of PTSD. permalink fedilink source parent [–] amansman@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 years ago I agree this whole scene really needs to be unpacked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] mvirts@lemmy.world 4 points 3 years ago I feel like that's more in sitting on a couch wearing a backpack territory permalink fedilink source parent [–] Ironfist@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) But why does it bother him? Im curious and confused. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 15 points 3 years ago I don't know. He is just really stupid. permalink fedilink source parent [–] regalia@literature.cafe 10 points 3 years ago Ok maybe now he's on to something. Did you just like get home and start pacing around with your backpack on? At that point why would you still have your backpack on lol permalink fedilink source parent [–] youRFate@feddit.de 6 points 3 years ago I mean, yea, I’d probably have put my backpack down when I entered their home. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snooggums@kbin.social 69 points 3 years ago (1 child) So like taking off a hat indoors kind of expectation for him? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dingus@lemmy.ml 23 points 3 years ago (2 children) Quakers don't take their hats off for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) I'm just going to pretend you said "Qakers take their hat off for no man" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 years ago Death by technicality, a classic blunder. permalink fedilink source parent [–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 12 points 3 years ago (1 child) You're not wrong. My nan died the other day, fucking guy didn't even take of his cap as they carried her through the kitchen to the backdoor. The box of Zatteran's at least bowed its head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 8 points 3 years ago Little Debbie was grinning something awful though. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] dingus@lemmy.ml 23 points 3 years ago (2 children) Quakers don't take their hats off for anyone. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) I'm just going to pretend you said "Qakers take their hat off for no man" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 years ago Death by technicality, a classic blunder. permalink fedilink source parent [–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 12 points 3 years ago (1 child) You're not wrong. My nan died the other day, fucking guy didn't even take of his cap as they carried her through the kitchen to the backdoor. The box of Zatteran's at least bowed its head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 8 points 3 years ago Little Debbie was grinning something awful though. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.world 17 points 3 years ago (1 child) I'm just going to pretend you said "Qakers take their hat off for no man" permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 years ago Death by technicality, a classic blunder. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] MajorMajormajormajor@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 years ago Death by technicality, a classic blunder. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 12 points 3 years ago (1 child) You're not wrong. My nan died the other day, fucking guy didn't even take of his cap as they carried her through the kitchen to the backdoor. The box of Zatteran's at least bowed its head. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 8 points 3 years ago Little Debbie was grinning something awful though. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] OneOrTheOtherDontAskMe@lemmy.world 8 points 3 years ago Little Debbie was grinning something awful though. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] 16mmPrecisely@mander.xyz 27 points 3 years ago (1 child) I need more details. Let's get to the bottom of this. How long had it been been since you arrived home? Were you standing or sitting down? Holding any drinks? How heavy is your backpack? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] dmention7@lemm.ee 35 points 3 years ago (3 children) Yeah I feel like we're getting somewhere now. At first I was on OP's side, but now I'm imagining them like sitting on the sofa drinking a Diet Dr Pepper while watching Judge Judy reruns and half carrying on a conversation with their dad while wearing their backpack. Then after Judge Judy renders her verdict, dad is suddenly like "why are you wearing a backpack?" Then OP gets defensive and weird, and finally we find ourselves at the situation in the meme. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 34 points 3 years ago (2 children) That would be pretty weird if if I did that. But in case anyone is curious, It was a few minutes after I had just gotten home from college and went inside the house and then went over to my dad to say hi before going to my room. He immediately asked me why I had my backpack on and I told him that I had just gotten back from college. It was at that moment he told me that wearing a backpack while talking to someone was weird. My Mom later walked in and asked what we were yelling about and she then started laughing because of how stupid the conversation was. I was standing the entire time we were arguing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] dmention7@lemm.ee 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Point of clarification: were you wearing your backpack with both straps on, one strap on your shoulder, or across your chest? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) Both straps permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 years ago Can you try it with one strap and report back? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Gork@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (2 children) More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ki77erb@lemmy.world 1 point 3 years ago Is this a first time occurrence? Has there ever been any other indication of your dad's discomfort around people wearing backpacks? There might be some history here that you're not aware of. Some past bad experience he had. A kind of PTSD. permalink fedilink source parent [–] amansman@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 years ago I agree this whole scene really needs to be unpacked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] mvirts@lemmy.world 4 points 3 years ago I feel like that's more in sitting on a couch wearing a backpack territory permalink fedilink source parent
[–] dmention7@lemm.ee 35 points 3 years ago (3 children) Yeah I feel like we're getting somewhere now. At first I was on OP's side, but now I'm imagining them like sitting on the sofa drinking a Diet Dr Pepper while watching Judge Judy reruns and half carrying on a conversation with their dad while wearing their backpack. Then after Judge Judy renders her verdict, dad is suddenly like "why are you wearing a backpack?" Then OP gets defensive and weird, and finally we find ourselves at the situation in the meme. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 34 points 3 years ago (2 children) That would be pretty weird if if I did that. But in case anyone is curious, It was a few minutes after I had just gotten home from college and went inside the house and then went over to my dad to say hi before going to my room. He immediately asked me why I had my backpack on and I told him that I had just gotten back from college. It was at that moment he told me that wearing a backpack while talking to someone was weird. My Mom later walked in and asked what we were yelling about and she then started laughing because of how stupid the conversation was. I was standing the entire time we were arguing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] dmention7@lemm.ee 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Point of clarification: were you wearing your backpack with both straps on, one strap on your shoulder, or across your chest? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) Both straps permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 years ago Can you try it with one strap and report back? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Gork@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (2 children) More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ki77erb@lemmy.world 1 point 3 years ago Is this a first time occurrence? Has there ever been any other indication of your dad's discomfort around people wearing backpacks? There might be some history here that you're not aware of. Some past bad experience he had. A kind of PTSD. permalink fedilink source parent [–] amansman@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 years ago I agree this whole scene really needs to be unpacked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] mvirts@lemmy.world 4 points 3 years ago I feel like that's more in sitting on a couch wearing a backpack territory permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 34 points 3 years ago (2 children) That would be pretty weird if if I did that. But in case anyone is curious, It was a few minutes after I had just gotten home from college and went inside the house and then went over to my dad to say hi before going to my room. He immediately asked me why I had my backpack on and I told him that I had just gotten back from college. It was at that moment he told me that wearing a backpack while talking to someone was weird. My Mom later walked in and asked what we were yelling about and she then started laughing because of how stupid the conversation was. I was standing the entire time we were arguing. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] dmention7@lemm.ee 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Point of clarification: were you wearing your backpack with both straps on, one strap on your shoulder, or across your chest? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) Both straps permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 years ago Can you try it with one strap and report back? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Gork@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (2 children) More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent [–] ki77erb@lemmy.world 1 point 3 years ago Is this a first time occurrence? Has there ever been any other indication of your dad's discomfort around people wearing backpacks? There might be some history here that you're not aware of. Some past bad experience he had. A kind of PTSD. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] dmention7@lemm.ee 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) Point of clarification: were you wearing your backpack with both straps on, one strap on your shoulder, or across your chest? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) Both straps permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 years ago Can you try it with one strap and report back? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Gork@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (2 children) More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago (2 children) Both straps permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 years ago Can you try it with one strap and report back? permalink fedilink source parent [–] Gork@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (2 children) More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] rab@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 years ago Can you try it with one strap and report back? permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Gork@lemm.ee 9 points 3 years ago (2 children) More clarification needed. Was the backpack on your back or were you wearing it reverse (on your chest)? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] activ8r@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 years ago This is a very important question I didn't realise needed to be asked. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 5 points 3 years ago My back duh. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] ki77erb@lemmy.world 1 point 3 years ago Is this a first time occurrence? Has there ever been any other indication of your dad's discomfort around people wearing backpacks? There might be some history here that you're not aware of. Some past bad experience he had. A kind of PTSD. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] amansman@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 years ago I agree this whole scene really needs to be unpacked. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] mvirts@lemmy.world 4 points 3 years ago I feel like that's more in sitting on a couch wearing a backpack territory permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Ironfist@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 years ago (1 child) But why does it bother him? Im curious and confused. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 15 points 3 years ago I don't know. He is just really stupid. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social [S] 15 points 3 years ago I don't know. He is just really stupid. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] regalia@literature.cafe 10 points 3 years ago Ok maybe now he's on to something. Did you just like get home and start pacing around with your backpack on? At that point why would you still have your backpack on lol permalink fedilink source parent
[–] youRFate@feddit.de 6 points 3 years ago I mean, yea, I’d probably have put my backpack down when I entered their home. permalink fedilink source parent