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[–] 20 points 2 years ago (1 child)

Yeah that’s horrible. I have a strict policy of turning off any notification that is not a direct message from a person to me or a reminder I set myself. If crap gets bundled like this, I turn it off altogether.

When I used Tinder, I just checked the app every now and then and I remember people unmatching me again because I didn’t reply quickly enough. Online dating is so fucking toxic.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I put "Messages will arrive in three to five business days" in my bio, and that solved the problem nicely. Now, I simply don't get matches at all 😎

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