I've learned that the bad checksums are to to be ignored because it's the NIC that's responsible for it, so tcpdump sees the wrong checksums and it doesn't matter. I have also learned that the Apache container actually does see the incoming connections. Here's an example of my working connection and his connection.
root ~ -> tcpdump -n port 443
## My machine to https://drkt.eu
15:44:50.985650 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [S], seq 2232908482, win 64800, options [mss 1440,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:44:50.985656 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [S.], seq 1276898910, ack 2232908483, win 64800, options [mss 1440,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:44:50.985780 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [.], ack 1, win 8235, length 0
15:44:50.987032 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [P.], seq 1:518, ack 1, win 8235, length 517
15:44:50.987040 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [.], ack 518, win 503, length 0
15:44:50.987333 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [P.], seq 1:4097, ack 518, win 503, length 4096
15:44:50.987566 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [.], ack 4097, win 8235, length 0
15:44:50.988400 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [P.], seq 4097:5381, ack 518, win 503, length 1284
15:44:50.988531 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [.], ack 5381, win 8229, length 0
15:44:50.992091 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [P.], seq 518:582, ack 5381, win 8229, length 64
15:44:50.992095 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [P.], seq 582:1087, ack 5381, win 8229, length 505
15:44:50.992173 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [.], ack 1087, win 501, length 0
15:44:50.992274 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [P.], seq 5381:5668, ack 1087, win 501, length 287
15:44:50.992342 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [P.], seq 5668:5955, ack 1087, win 501, length 287
15:44:50.992488 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [.], ack 5955, win 8235, length 0
15:44:50.993404 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [P.], seq 5955:10902, ack 1087, win 501, length 4947
15:44:50.993647 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [.], ack 10902, win 8235, length 0
15:44:55.998521 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [P.], seq 10902:10926, ack 1087, win 501, length 24
15:44:55.998547 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [F.], seq 10926, ack 1087, win 501, length 0
15:44:55.998727 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [P.], seq 1087:1111, ack 10926, win 8234, length 24
15:44:55.998733 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [.], ack 10927, win 8234, length 0
15:44:55.998734 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868 > 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443: Flags [F.], seq 1111, ack 10927, win 8234, length 0
15:44:55.998736 IP6 2a05:f6c7:8039::1337.443 > 2a05:f6c7:8039:0:c859:8de4:257f:b4ff.53868: Flags [.], ack 1112, win 501, length 0
## Office dude to https://drkt.eu
15:45:06.759198 IP 5.186.33.87.59842 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 3042763137, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:06.759210 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:07.009444 IP 5.186.33.87.59843 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 1050721154, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:07.009455 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:07.761986 IP 5.186.33.87.59842 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 3042763137, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:07.761994 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:08.011014 IP 5.186.33.87.59843 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 1050721154, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:08.011023 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:08.774730 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:09.030829 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:09.772318 IP 5.186.33.87.59842 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 3042763137, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:09.772327 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:10.020444 IP 5.186.33.87.59843 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 1050721154, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:10.020452 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:11.782726 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:12.038818 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:13.778722 IP 5.186.33.87.59842 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 3042763137, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:13.778730 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:14.026072 IP 5.186.33.87.59843 > 192.168.78.164.443: Flags [S], seq 1050721154, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,wscale 8,nop,nop,sackOK], length 0
15:45:14.026082 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:18.026717 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:18.282740 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:26.214732 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:26.474741 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:42.342747 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59842: Flags [S.], seq 4039717320, ack 3042763138, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0
15:45:42.598745 IP 192.168.78.164.443 > 5.186.33.87.59843: Flags [S.], seq 1810250599, ack 1050721155, win 64240, options [mss 1460,nop,nop,sackOK,nop,wscale 7], length 0