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why isn't the use of the bidet more widespread? (lemmy.world)
submitted 2 years ago by to c/nostupidquestions@lemmy.world
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[–] 21 points 2 years ago (1 child)

A bidet can find the clit and I can't? WTF

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  • [–] 9 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    /s

    You lie

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago* (3 children)

    Why do people always act like it's super difficult to find the clit?

    Look at a medical textbook, put your face between her legs and you'll see where it is. It really isn't that hard.

    I'm aware there are men who are so caught up with toxic masculinity that eating out a woman is not an option, and they probably actually are unable to find the clit. But do people really say "look at me, I'm a toxic person who isn't able to pleasure their partner because of it" about themselves as a joke?

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    Not wanting to eat out their significant other isn't necessarily correlated to toxic masculinity; I think you're conflating two different things. It's possible to be selfish completely unrelated to toxic masculinity. Not every instance of a male doing something wrong is attributable to toxic masculinity.

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  • [–] 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

    So people are saying "look at me, I'm selfish" as a joke?

    You're completely right that not every bad behaviour in a male is toxic masculinity. And a completely non-sexist person may just not want to do it out of pure selfishness. However there are plenty of jokes about the gayness of a man eating out a woman. I'm pretty sure these topics are closely related. The logic of those men usually looks like this:

    Eating a woman out => submissive => weak => bad

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago

    No idea tbh. It's not hard to find. Sure it's hidden under a good but it's not exactly hard to see. Learning how to use it though seems to be more of a mystery. I mean shit, the majority of the time my wife struggles to know what she does and doesn't like.

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