It's the reverse with her. She's beating everyone else up for different things that happened ages ago, but she has to bring them up. It's not one single big incident, they're individual incidents, not related or anything... it's just shit she remembers and just has to be the high and mighty judge, judging everyone else about their sins 😒. I mean, it gets tiring after a while. Yes, we know we screw up, we make mistakes, we are human, that's what humans do.

But, dare not point at her own mistakes, oh no, not only will you get a shitstorm of insults, completely unrelated to the problem, but also get accusations that this problem or mistake of her's is not actually her fault, but everyone elses... that, or she'll just start crying and play the victim.