I'd agree in part. In my opinion self diagnosis doesn't mean you get to demand accommodations or special treatment. Self diagnosis for me means that I have the terminology to look for things to change in my life to make things easier, for exercises to help myself and to accept that I might not be able to do everything other people can do. It allows me to stop telling myself that I'm lazy, stupid, retarded etc. It does not mean that I walk around demanding "attention".