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[–] stevedidwhat_infosec@infosec.pub 56 points 2 years ago (2 children) That’s it? permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] HowRu68@lemmy.world [S] 113 points 2 years ago (2 children) The Panama papers consisted of 11 millions documents, 214 000 offshore companies, 14.000 customers.. And now 27 are charged, and that's it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 54 points 2 years ago (2 children) Don't forget the guy who broke this story kinda sorta exploded permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Arve@lemmy.world 56 points 2 years ago (2 children) The "guy" in question is called Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 26 points 2 years ago (2 children) Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia… I am a girl and I use "guy" in a gender neutral way. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago Which is 100% how I was using it. Couldn't remember anything about the person other than they were clearly killed by somebody involved in this. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) I am a girl and I use “guy” in a gender neutral way. Vs. "person"? The word "guy" (vs "gal", etc.) is literally signaling gender. Not that I think it's worth much debate/argument, but still. When I read the OC I just substituted the word 'guy' for 'person' in my head, because I understood the meaning of the whole sentence being said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) Language is chabgeable. I always say "guys" for mixed groups. Seems like some more people agree or don't care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent [–] misanthropy@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) You probably think dude implies gender too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent [–] robdor@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 years ago Yep that's the guy. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Not on purpose either permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago I want to point out that's not typical permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (2 children) Right. And how many specific names? A hell of a lot more than 27. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 23 points 2 years ago (1 child) "It's a big club, and you ain't in it." - George Carlin permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Juvyn00b@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I don't know why I never knew that was Carlin. Had an old work friend who would say that all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] octopus_ink@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago (1 child) These were the 27 who weren't rich or powerful enough to buy/influence their way out of it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] FMT99@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago Just like 08, where one fucking person got charged and it was some low level VP permalink fedilink source parent [–] millifoo@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago And even that too 8 freaking years! WTF. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HowRu68@lemmy.world [S] 113 points 2 years ago (2 children) The Panama papers consisted of 11 millions documents, 214 000 offshore companies, 14.000 customers.. And now 27 are charged, and that's it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 54 points 2 years ago (2 children) Don't forget the guy who broke this story kinda sorta exploded permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Arve@lemmy.world 56 points 2 years ago (2 children) The "guy" in question is called Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 26 points 2 years ago (2 children) Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia… I am a girl and I use "guy" in a gender neutral way. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago Which is 100% how I was using it. Couldn't remember anything about the person other than they were clearly killed by somebody involved in this. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) I am a girl and I use “guy” in a gender neutral way. Vs. "person"? The word "guy" (vs "gal", etc.) is literally signaling gender. Not that I think it's worth much debate/argument, but still. When I read the OC I just substituted the word 'guy' for 'person' in my head, because I understood the meaning of the whole sentence being said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) Language is chabgeable. I always say "guys" for mixed groups. Seems like some more people agree or don't care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent [–] misanthropy@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) You probably think dude implies gender too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent [–] robdor@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 years ago Yep that's the guy. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Not on purpose either permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago I want to point out that's not typical permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (2 children) Right. And how many specific names? A hell of a lot more than 27. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 23 points 2 years ago (1 child) "It's a big club, and you ain't in it." - George Carlin permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Juvyn00b@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I don't know why I never knew that was Carlin. Had an old work friend who would say that all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] octopus_ink@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago (1 child) These were the 27 who weren't rich or powerful enough to buy/influence their way out of it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] FMT99@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago Just like 08, where one fucking person got charged and it was some low level VP permalink fedilink source parent
[–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 54 points 2 years ago (2 children) Don't forget the guy who broke this story kinda sorta exploded permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Arve@lemmy.world 56 points 2 years ago (2 children) The "guy" in question is called Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 26 points 2 years ago (2 children) Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia… I am a girl and I use "guy" in a gender neutral way. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago Which is 100% how I was using it. Couldn't remember anything about the person other than they were clearly killed by somebody involved in this. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) I am a girl and I use “guy” in a gender neutral way. Vs. "person"? The word "guy" (vs "gal", etc.) is literally signaling gender. Not that I think it's worth much debate/argument, but still. When I read the OC I just substituted the word 'guy' for 'person' in my head, because I understood the meaning of the whole sentence being said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) Language is chabgeable. I always say "guys" for mixed groups. Seems like some more people agree or don't care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent [–] misanthropy@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) You probably think dude implies gender too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent [–] robdor@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 years ago Yep that's the guy. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Not on purpose either permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago I want to point out that's not typical permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Arve@lemmy.world 56 points 2 years ago (2 children) The "guy" in question is called Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 26 points 2 years ago (2 children) Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia… I am a girl and I use "guy" in a gender neutral way. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago Which is 100% how I was using it. Couldn't remember anything about the person other than they were clearly killed by somebody involved in this. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) I am a girl and I use “guy” in a gender neutral way. Vs. "person"? The word "guy" (vs "gal", etc.) is literally signaling gender. Not that I think it's worth much debate/argument, but still. When I read the OC I just substituted the word 'guy' for 'person' in my head, because I understood the meaning of the whole sentence being said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) Language is chabgeable. I always say "guys" for mixed groups. Seems like some more people agree or don't care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent [–] misanthropy@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) You probably think dude implies gender too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent [–] robdor@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 years ago Yep that's the guy. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snek@lemmy.world 26 points 2 years ago (2 children) Daphne Anne Caruana Galizia… I am a girl and I use "guy" in a gender neutral way. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago Which is 100% how I was using it. Couldn't remember anything about the person other than they were clearly killed by somebody involved in this. permalink fedilink source parent [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) I am a girl and I use “guy” in a gender neutral way. Vs. "person"? The word "guy" (vs "gal", etc.) is literally signaling gender. Not that I think it's worth much debate/argument, but still. When I read the OC I just substituted the word 'guy' for 'person' in my head, because I understood the meaning of the whole sentence being said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) Language is chabgeable. I always say "guys" for mixed groups. Seems like some more people agree or don't care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent [–] misanthropy@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) You probably think dude implies gender too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago Which is 100% how I was using it. Couldn't remember anything about the person other than they were clearly killed by somebody involved in this. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -4 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) I am a girl and I use “guy” in a gender neutral way. Vs. "person"? The word "guy" (vs "gal", etc.) is literally signaling gender. Not that I think it's worth much debate/argument, but still. When I read the OC I just substituted the word 'guy' for 'person' in my head, because I understood the meaning of the whole sentence being said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) Language is chabgeable. I always say "guys" for mixed groups. Seems like some more people agree or don't care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent [–] misanthropy@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) You probably think dude implies gender too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snek@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child) Language is chabgeable. I always say "guys" for mixed groups. Seems like some more people agree or don't care. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Seems like some more people agree or don’t care. I don't mostly, I just wanted to make conversation. As I mentioned earlier, I did the mental gymnastics and substituted "person" for "guy" in my head when reading. Language is chabgeable. It definately evolves, over time. I speak English but literally can't understand Old English (as an example). My language doesn't segregate between an Uncle (for example) on my Father's side, vs. on my Mother's side, while some other languages do exactly that, they have two different words depending on which Uncle you're talking about. Heck, we even use the same vowels but pronounce them differently in different cultures. English pronouces the vowel "I" as "eye", while (for example) with Persian/Farsi they pronounce the vowel "I" as if its an "E". Americans say "Eye-ran" for Iran, where Persians say "Eee-ron" for Iran. Its important for Humanity to be able to speak to each other, to resolve issues and build a better social World habitat. Kind of hard when people manipulate the languages away from what they are, but then again that Humanity, never 100% perfect. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snek@lemmy.world -5 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I'm not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (1 child) Thanks for writing this long post but I’m not really going to read it. Not interested in a side trackwd conversation about a non-issue. I mean, it's not that long, I'm just quoting what you said before responding to it is all. And kind of funny, considering you're here on Lemmy to read other people's comments. And I really truly feel that Humanity needs to be able to talk to each other, and if they can't agree on common wording conventions it makes it that much harder to do. So I think it actually is something of an issue, even if just a minor one. Overall, too bad, thought we were having a good/friendly conversation. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Woop anorher long one! Noping out of here. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (2 children) Woop anorher long one! Four paragraphs, three out of four of them are one sentence long, and the fourth one is two sentences long. That's long to you? Really? Noping out of here. No need to run. It's just an Internet conversation. Honestly, why are you even on Lemmy then, where there's a lot of comments that are longer than that last one I just did? I'm getting the feeling at this point that you're the type of person who just scrolls down to the bottom of a EULA/TOS and just hits the 'accept' button, without reading. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snek@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago Oh no another long one! This time I only skimmed through the first sentence. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wait. You don’t do that also? 😆 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Always read the fine print, or don't bitch and moan about being f'd over. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] misanthropy@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) You probably think dude implies gender too permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children) Dude and Dudette. 😀 permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent [–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snek@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (2 children) Yep I also say dude to men and women. Big deal. I guess next time I see your mom I'll call her dude. (I kid, I kid.) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Don't kid. Call her dude or guy, I literally do not care. (I kid not and don't see the point, and for a "Cosmic" Cleric, you seem a bit uptight and closeminded) permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Wow, so hostile. Have a nice day. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] YeetPics@mander.xyz 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) You reap what you sow. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) I stand by what I've said. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] snek@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago Dude. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I call my mom dude all the time. IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) IMO there is no reason to be offended by being misgendered. Unless it’s obviously an attack. Well as someone from an older generation I'd generally agree with you, a simple mistake to apolgize for, and not to be taken so negatively. But it does seem that these days that type of logic does not hold sway, as people care very deeply about proper gender identification now, and see it as being disrespected if incorrectly gendered. So I try to always use the right gender, so no accidental disrespect is done. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] aStonedSanta@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago People will always expect you to understand things about them you cannot. If someone gets mad. That person sucks. lol. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) "Actress" also still exists, but many women in that business prefer "actor" and it is becoming a default. The existence of a word doesn't change the fact that language is fluid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) “Actress” also still exists, but many women in that business prefer “actor” and it is becoming a default. Yep, I'm aware. They've gone back and forth on that though in Hollywood, not sure where they landed currently on that. The last Academy Awards was still using actress. The existence of a word doesn’t change the fact that language is fluid. The fluidity has nothing to do with the existence of a single word or not, but about human nature, and it's error rate/drift, and how all humans can't "stay on the same page" over a long period of time about the rules of a language, so the language morphs over time. Lol, basically 'cancer' for languages. But we should try, so that we can maximize the ability to communicate with each other. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Not on purpose either permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago I want to point out that's not typical permalink fedilink source parent
[–] EdibleFriend@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago I want to point out that's not typical permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FlyingSquid@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago (2 children) Right. And how many specific names? A hell of a lot more than 27. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 23 points 2 years ago (1 child) "It's a big club, and you ain't in it." - George Carlin permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Juvyn00b@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I don't know why I never knew that was Carlin. Had an old work friend who would say that all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent [–] octopus_ink@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago (1 child) These were the 27 who weren't rich or powerful enough to buy/influence their way out of it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] FMT99@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago Just like 08, where one fucking person got charged and it was some low level VP permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Rhaedas@fedia.io 23 points 2 years ago (1 child) "It's a big club, and you ain't in it." - George Carlin permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Juvyn00b@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I don't know why I never knew that was Carlin. Had an old work friend who would say that all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Juvyn00b@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I don't know why I never knew that was Carlin. Had an old work friend who would say that all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Juvyn00b@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) I don't know why I never knew that was Carlin. Had an old work friend who would say that all the time. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] NegativeLookBehind@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] octopus_ink@lemmy.ml 19 points 2 years ago (1 child) These were the 27 who weren't rich or powerful enough to buy/influence their way out of it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] FMT99@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago Just like 08, where one fucking person got charged and it was some low level VP permalink fedilink source parent
[+] FMT99@lemmy.world 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago Just like 08, where one fucking person got charged and it was some low level VP permalink fedilink source parent
[–] CaptainSpaceman@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago Just like 08, where one fucking person got charged and it was some low level VP permalink fedilink source parent
[–] millifoo@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago And even that too 8 freaking years! WTF. permalink fedilink source parent