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'It’s a common misconception that we recommend all EAs “marry to give,” or marry a high-net-worth individual with the intent of redirecting much of their wealth to effective causes' (web.archive.org)
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An old post from Caroline Ellison's tumblr, since deleted.

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[–] 41 points 2 years ago (3 children)

tired: polyamory on a basis of mutual love
wired: neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    neoreactionary harem with stack ranking

    Please don’t remind me about my miserable time on dating apps.

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  • [–] 15 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    we told you, urbit is not a dating app!

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  • [–] 10 points 2 years ago (3 children)

    Counterpoint: it’s not not a dating app

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  • [–] 12 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    oh fuck there’s definitely an urbit dating app isn’t there

    these weirdos always use their fucked up platforms to implement insular dating apps

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    counterpoint: every form of communication can be made into a dating app if you're horny enough

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    making a bunch of typos because my hands are too sweaty to operate the Morse code paddle

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    people would try to pick each other up over ham radio and have others break in to remind them that a large portion of the globe could hear them

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    “radio amateurs are waiting on your call. come play my lord”

    god I’m imagining how this all must have went given the personalities of some of the radio hams I’ve known

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I’ve actively stayed a pirate because I don’t want to deal with the majority of local HAMs (a necessity if I were to pursue a license locally)

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

    I’ve been recommending alternative bands (LoRA is cool, or GMRS) over HAM unless the person I’m talking to has an interest in radio and significant time for the licensing process itself, because the HAM bands sure aren’t worth it for the conversation

    like fuck, even the folks doing ultra-long-range HF work have automated away the part where you have to ever talk to a member of the HAM community

    there is still cool shit you can do with an amateur license (ultra-cheap radios and $5 antennas made partially out of trees that do international comms, SSTV, fucking with SDRs, long-range unencrypted LoRA) but a ton of the HAM community will actively discourage you from doing any of it because most of them are laser-focused on gear acquisition, contesting for bullshit accolades, and elitism

    and to be honest, the license is the least interesting part of any of it (or is a gigantic opsec risk, depending on the tendencies of your local radio community)

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    but a ton of the HAM community will actively discourage you from doing any of it because most of them are laser-focused on gear acquisition, contesting for bullshit accolades, and elitism

    i was just thinking about the gearhead urge in electronic music

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  • [–] 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

    I am not familiar with either hams nor electronic musicians, but being peripherally involved in photography and reading about other hobbies has led me to the unscientific conclusion that this is a Guy Thing.

    (It's possible the same tendency is present in hobbies that are traditionally female-coded, in which case it's human)

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    hah yeah lora is fun, I actually built a lora network a few years back (end to end, incl. some v1.0~if-you-squint prototype boards during dev phase (found a decent vendor for the rollout)). also done a bit with SDR going back a fair while (been following that since it first started becoming popular around 2009? 2010?)

    this side of the world HAM is the lowest class amateur license you can get afaik, which is unfortunately a bit sucky. and yeah opsec shit

    I do want to find myself a UV-KR after what I saw recently.. (yes, not a -5R, a KR)

    ton of the HAM community will actively discourage you from doing any of it because most of them are laser-focused on gear acquisition

    this made me remember some of the most annoying fucking people I ever met at wugmeets (from these, which are sadly nowhere near as big as they used to be)

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  • [–] 4 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I need to do a lot more with my LoRA gear! last time I played with it, it was still frustratingly too impenetrable for my friends to pick up, but I had a lot of fun building a setup that’d work over a couple miles of obstructed terrain

    I do want to find myself a UV-KR after what I saw recently… (yes, not a -5R, a KR)

    huh, what’s cool about the KR specifically? a quick search didn’t turn anything up for me, but I’m always on the lookout for an inexpensive radio to play with. I love that I can basically hand off a Baofeng or an RTL-SDR off to a friend and they can get rolling on whatever we’re doing that needs radio

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 child)

    ah sorry typo (well, misremembered), "UV-K5": https://spectrum.ieee.org/quansheng-uv-k5-hacking

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  • [–] 5 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    oh dear, you might have just replaced my baofeng

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  • [–] 8 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    I know someone that met their long-term partner in the chat of words with friends.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    i met my wife on netgoth IRC, so

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  • [+] 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    That’s fair, us mutual love and respect polyamorists are old and boring.

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago (1 child)

    ya know how the failure mode of polyamory is when the cis straight guys try running things? yeah, welcome to rationalism

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  • [–] 7 points 2 years ago

    Oh I’ve been to that event before. Angry lesbians came to the rescue then. Unfortunately I don’t think any of us want to deal with rationalists. Maybe they could get some angry bi ladies, I hear they do in a pinch.

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