I'm saying it doesn't matter in function.

If you actually care about dismantling toxic masculinity you'd actually take the time to understand men when they do speak out about the things that bother them, instead of trying to turn it around on these men being too ignorant because they don't have the privilege we do to ruminate on society like we can.

Maybe if feminism could do more in their social circles to shut down feminist misandry before it becomes an issue for men, instead of reinforcing toxic masculinity by insisting men should just shut up and deal with it, then these men who are "trapped in the system" wouldn't have these problems with feminism to begin with.

But I suppose as long as we can reaffirm our own perception of superiority towards these lower beings then we'll be fine. Most of the male feminists I see are dudes who are comparatively well off to the average working man, and I don't think that's just random chance. It's easy to be a male feminist when you are in the privileged position to philosophise, but I don't think it's fair to just expect men in disadvantaged positions in life to just eat the same blows we can shrug off.