▲ 16 ▼ Even though you have always considered yourself as a heterosexual only adult have you ever had what would be considered a Bi or Gay experience? (lemmy.world) submitted 2 years ago by Mickey7@lemmy.world [M] to c/asklemmynsfw@lemmynsfw.com NSFW 18 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] tooren@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 years ago (2 children) Why do you assert that at the start lol. permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] Assdddffff@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 2 years ago It looks like an oddly worded way to ask a question to straight people. I think the first part of the title would work better as something like “Straight identifying people, have you ever…” or the question could have been asked more generally like “have you ever had a sexual experience that didn’t match with your sexual identity? How did it go?” permalink fedilink source parent [–] Mickey7@lemmy.world [S] 4 points 2 years ago (3 children) Because I think most ...if not all... boys "experiment" when they reach puberty and their hormones are racing. Those interactions would be considered Bi or Gay. But once you are an adult it's different and at that point you are either heter, bi, or gay permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Or pan or ace or demi or poly or literally a dozen other possibilities. permalink fedilink source parent [–] SoylentBlake@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago Yea, I reject the naming convention here entirely. Sexuality is a spectrum. And, like you are insinuating, where someone falls on that spectrum can change with time (sorry pray-away-gay folks, this can't be forced = simply put, we like what we like). Where you land on that spectrum, NO ONE should give a shit about. Focus on your own genitals and the genitals you are trying to please and the extent of your total genital thinking should end there. Sometimes there are lifetimes of experiences to explore in sexuality, for some people, it's cut and dry. All the options in between are just as ok as well. With that context I don't see justification for the impoliteness of not minding my own fucking business permalink fedilink source parent [+] some_guy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 years ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Assdddffff@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 2 years ago It looks like an oddly worded way to ask a question to straight people. I think the first part of the title would work better as something like “Straight identifying people, have you ever…” or the question could have been asked more generally like “have you ever had a sexual experience that didn’t match with your sexual identity? How did it go?” permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Mickey7@lemmy.world [S] 4 points 2 years ago (3 children) Because I think most ...if not all... boys "experiment" when they reach puberty and their hormones are racing. Those interactions would be considered Bi or Gay. But once you are an adult it's different and at that point you are either heter, bi, or gay permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Or pan or ace or demi or poly or literally a dozen other possibilities. permalink fedilink source parent [–] SoylentBlake@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago Yea, I reject the naming convention here entirely. Sexuality is a spectrum. And, like you are insinuating, where someone falls on that spectrum can change with time (sorry pray-away-gay folks, this can't be forced = simply put, we like what we like). Where you land on that spectrum, NO ONE should give a shit about. Focus on your own genitals and the genitals you are trying to please and the extent of your total genital thinking should end there. Sometimes there are lifetimes of experiences to explore in sexuality, for some people, it's cut and dry. All the options in between are just as ok as well. With that context I don't see justification for the impoliteness of not minding my own fucking business permalink fedilink source parent [+] some_guy@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 point 2 years ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago Or pan or ace or demi or poly or literally a dozen other possibilities. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SoylentBlake@lemm.ee 2 points 2 years ago Yea, I reject the naming convention here entirely. Sexuality is a spectrum. And, like you are insinuating, where someone falls on that spectrum can change with time (sorry pray-away-gay folks, this can't be forced = simply put, we like what we like). Where you land on that spectrum, NO ONE should give a shit about. Focus on your own genitals and the genitals you are trying to please and the extent of your total genital thinking should end there. Sometimes there are lifetimes of experiences to explore in sexuality, for some people, it's cut and dry. All the options in between are just as ok as well. With that context I don't see justification for the impoliteness of not minding my own fucking business permalink fedilink source parent