▲ 858 ▼ LTT is starting to lose subscribers (lemmy.ml) submitted 3 years ago by const_void@lemmy.ml to c/linustechtips@lemmy.ml 216 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[+] sadreality@kbin.social -26 points 3 years ago (2 children) What was that reason? This timing is not a good look either way tho permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 21 points 3 years ago (1 child) "Not a good look" should be the least of her concerns if she was indeed sexually harassed. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -23 points 3 years ago (3 children) If she was sexually harassed she should have gone to the police when it happened She is took this the court of public opinion at an opportune time... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 14 points 3 years ago (1 child) This looks a lot like victim blaming. If the alleged facts are indeed true, it is incredibly difficult to even manage to get the police to care, let alone act. Not to mention the social stigma and the trauma. Given the number of people involved, other people might be compelled to come forward. Then we will know for sure. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -12 points 3 years ago (1 child) I didn't read what she alleges in detail but at least few instances where she indicated she was touched improperly. That's enough for a police report. Rest of her complains are just classic toxic working life rest of faced or facing. Either way... This is now he said/she said online drama that she decided to fuel. I give zero fucks about the channel or dudes money. Just commented on the fact that her bringing this up now doesn't earn more trust from me. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) You can't really believe it is that easy. Filing a police report is, in most countries, an excruciating exercise in frustration and humiliation for women victims of harassment. It carries social stigma on a level that is astounding. Add to this the level of gaslighting usually deployed by abusers and you have a recipe for self censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Even if everything alleged is true, there is no way to prove it. This is just an online circle jerk now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent [–] folkrav@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) While I generally agree with the fundamental idea behind your statement that you should generally let the justice system do its job, you've still got to put your statement into context. Said context is that a very tiny fraction of depositions of sexual nature even reaches actual charges, and even fewer actually end up in convictions. The justice system is, objectively speaking, utterly failing at protecting people against these crimes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -1 points 3 years ago Justice system is not here to protect, it is to punish the crime. Internet works into the same way. Just lower burden of proof. permalink fedilink source parent [–] eskimofry@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Are you a professional sexually harassed person? Do you understand what is the right course of action to take here? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social 0 points 3 years ago Lawyer and police right after alleged criminal incident occurred. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Darorad@lemmy.world 12 points 3 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -10 points 3 years ago (1 child) NDA does protect misconduct unless you got paid specially not to talk about it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Darorad@lemmy.world 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 21 points 3 years ago (1 child) "Not a good look" should be the least of her concerns if she was indeed sexually harassed. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -23 points 3 years ago (3 children) If she was sexually harassed she should have gone to the police when it happened She is took this the court of public opinion at an opportune time... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 14 points 3 years ago (1 child) This looks a lot like victim blaming. If the alleged facts are indeed true, it is incredibly difficult to even manage to get the police to care, let alone act. Not to mention the social stigma and the trauma. Given the number of people involved, other people might be compelled to come forward. Then we will know for sure. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -12 points 3 years ago (1 child) I didn't read what she alleges in detail but at least few instances where she indicated she was touched improperly. That's enough for a police report. Rest of her complains are just classic toxic working life rest of faced or facing. Either way... This is now he said/she said online drama that she decided to fuel. I give zero fucks about the channel or dudes money. Just commented on the fact that her bringing this up now doesn't earn more trust from me. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) You can't really believe it is that easy. Filing a police report is, in most countries, an excruciating exercise in frustration and humiliation for women victims of harassment. It carries social stigma on a level that is astounding. Add to this the level of gaslighting usually deployed by abusers and you have a recipe for self censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Even if everything alleged is true, there is no way to prove it. This is just an online circle jerk now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent [–] folkrav@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) While I generally agree with the fundamental idea behind your statement that you should generally let the justice system do its job, you've still got to put your statement into context. Said context is that a very tiny fraction of depositions of sexual nature even reaches actual charges, and even fewer actually end up in convictions. The justice system is, objectively speaking, utterly failing at protecting people against these crimes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -1 points 3 years ago Justice system is not here to protect, it is to punish the crime. Internet works into the same way. Just lower burden of proof. permalink fedilink source parent [–] eskimofry@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Are you a professional sexually harassed person? Do you understand what is the right course of action to take here? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social 0 points 3 years ago Lawyer and police right after alleged criminal incident occurred. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] sadreality@kbin.social -23 points 3 years ago (3 children) If she was sexually harassed she should have gone to the police when it happened She is took this the court of public opinion at an opportune time... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 14 points 3 years ago (1 child) This looks a lot like victim blaming. If the alleged facts are indeed true, it is incredibly difficult to even manage to get the police to care, let alone act. Not to mention the social stigma and the trauma. Given the number of people involved, other people might be compelled to come forward. Then we will know for sure. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -12 points 3 years ago (1 child) I didn't read what she alleges in detail but at least few instances where she indicated she was touched improperly. That's enough for a police report. Rest of her complains are just classic toxic working life rest of faced or facing. Either way... This is now he said/she said online drama that she decided to fuel. I give zero fucks about the channel or dudes money. Just commented on the fact that her bringing this up now doesn't earn more trust from me. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) You can't really believe it is that easy. Filing a police report is, in most countries, an excruciating exercise in frustration and humiliation for women victims of harassment. It carries social stigma on a level that is astounding. Add to this the level of gaslighting usually deployed by abusers and you have a recipe for self censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Even if everything alleged is true, there is no way to prove it. This is just an online circle jerk now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent [–] folkrav@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) While I generally agree with the fundamental idea behind your statement that you should generally let the justice system do its job, you've still got to put your statement into context. Said context is that a very tiny fraction of depositions of sexual nature even reaches actual charges, and even fewer actually end up in convictions. The justice system is, objectively speaking, utterly failing at protecting people against these crimes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -1 points 3 years ago Justice system is not here to protect, it is to punish the crime. Internet works into the same way. Just lower burden of proof. permalink fedilink source parent [–] eskimofry@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Are you a professional sexually harassed person? Do you understand what is the right course of action to take here? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social 0 points 3 years ago Lawyer and police right after alleged criminal incident occurred. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 14 points 3 years ago (1 child) This looks a lot like victim blaming. If the alleged facts are indeed true, it is incredibly difficult to even manage to get the police to care, let alone act. Not to mention the social stigma and the trauma. Given the number of people involved, other people might be compelled to come forward. Then we will know for sure. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -12 points 3 years ago (1 child) I didn't read what she alleges in detail but at least few instances where she indicated she was touched improperly. That's enough for a police report. Rest of her complains are just classic toxic working life rest of faced or facing. Either way... This is now he said/she said online drama that she decided to fuel. I give zero fucks about the channel or dudes money. Just commented on the fact that her bringing this up now doesn't earn more trust from me. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) You can't really believe it is that easy. Filing a police report is, in most countries, an excruciating exercise in frustration and humiliation for women victims of harassment. It carries social stigma on a level that is astounding. Add to this the level of gaslighting usually deployed by abusers and you have a recipe for self censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Even if everything alleged is true, there is no way to prove it. This is just an online circle jerk now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent
[+] sadreality@kbin.social -12 points 3 years ago (1 child) I didn't read what she alleges in detail but at least few instances where she indicated she was touched improperly. That's enough for a police report. Rest of her complains are just classic toxic working life rest of faced or facing. Either way... This is now he said/she said online drama that she decided to fuel. I give zero fucks about the channel or dudes money. Just commented on the fact that her bringing this up now doesn't earn more trust from me. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) You can't really believe it is that easy. Filing a police report is, in most countries, an excruciating exercise in frustration and humiliation for women victims of harassment. It carries social stigma on a level that is astounding. Add to this the level of gaslighting usually deployed by abusers and you have a recipe for self censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Even if everything alleged is true, there is no way to prove it. This is just an online circle jerk now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent
[–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 8 points 3 years ago (1 child) You can't really believe it is that easy. Filing a police report is, in most countries, an excruciating exercise in frustration and humiliation for women victims of harassment. It carries social stigma on a level that is astounding. Add to this the level of gaslighting usually deployed by abusers and you have a recipe for self censorship. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Even if everything alleged is true, there is no way to prove it. This is just an online circle jerk now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent
[+] sadreality@kbin.social -8 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Even if everything alleged is true, there is no way to prove it. This is just an online circle jerk now. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent
[–] magnor@lemmy.magnor.ovh 7 points 3 years ago (1 child) Is going public online while alleging criminal misconduct that happened 2 years ago is easier? Yes, actually. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent
[–] sadreality@kbin.social -4 points 3 years ago Everyone made theirs choices permalink fedilink source parent
[–] folkrav@lemmy.world 5 points 3 years ago (1 child) While I generally agree with the fundamental idea behind your statement that you should generally let the justice system do its job, you've still got to put your statement into context. Said context is that a very tiny fraction of depositions of sexual nature even reaches actual charges, and even fewer actually end up in convictions. The justice system is, objectively speaking, utterly failing at protecting people against these crimes. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social -1 points 3 years ago Justice system is not here to protect, it is to punish the crime. Internet works into the same way. Just lower burden of proof. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] sadreality@kbin.social -1 points 3 years ago Justice system is not here to protect, it is to punish the crime. Internet works into the same way. Just lower burden of proof. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] eskimofry@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 years ago* (1 child) Are you a professional sexually harassed person? Do you understand what is the right course of action to take here? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] sadreality@kbin.social 0 points 3 years ago Lawyer and police right after alleged criminal incident occurred. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] sadreality@kbin.social 0 points 3 years ago Lawyer and police right after alleged criminal incident occurred. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Darorad@lemmy.world 12 points 3 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 child) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] sadreality@kbin.social -10 points 3 years ago (1 child) NDA does protect misconduct unless you got paid specially not to talk about it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Darorad@lemmy.world 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] sadreality@kbin.social -10 points 3 years ago (1 child) NDA does protect misconduct unless you got paid specially not to talk about it. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [+] Darorad@lemmy.world 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Darorad@lemmy.world 9 points 3 years ago* (last edited 1 year ago) [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent