Thank you, it's my own weird headcannon. History is often very good at sweeping queerness under the rug particularly when someone is admired.

I think it's his fairly deep friendships with women that I wish I knew about. I know that for many of us there's a sort of external recognition factor of "these are my people" where we best empathize and folks of our birth sex can feel a little alien by comparison. Misogyny can be a fairly limiting factor in self exploration though and the options available to women in his time were generally fairly dismal.