That's your opinion, and that's all addressed by anarchist theory. It seems to me you're just shooting from the hip and parroting anti-anarchist propaganda you've been fed all of your life.
Edit: Blocked because "anarchism is incompatible with anarchism" is some of the most utterly baffling pseudo-intellectual horseshit it's been my displeasure to read. I need to wash my eyes after seeing those words on the screen.