Bit late to replying, but I do not have/use Matrix, so wouldn't be sure how to get a hold of you there.

Down to learn tho. Got a link to read up on it, and how to find you on there?

I am looking for various places that also express a similar level of free thought and sexual content such as Burggit, that have a more Discord form of concept, having a sort of "server with channels". I found Revolt a while ago which is acting on somewhat of a grey area due to still being obscure and not used so much yet. But in essence Revolt also does not outright allow cunny, and acts upon laws from their respective base countries. And Discord has started taking more and more action. A lot of the chat platforms that do allow it, are so barebones though that there's not much reason to use it at that point.

But a completely loli friendly backup is something me and my community have been looking for. Of which Burggit is currently our main one. Since all of us actually come from Reddit, which is just Burggit, but for Karens. We use Reddit/Discord a lot on tandem. And want to transition this towards using Burggit/Something as our new core, our goal is to be a safe haven for the "okbuddy" members that don't get cancelled left and right by oversensitive and overreactive westerners. Just wish another Dutchie would make a Chat Platform though and apply the same policies as you do. (Dutch myself, but sadly don't have the experience to create anything of the sort.)