Ouch, that must have been a pain to recover from...

I've had almost the opposite experience to yours funnily. Several years ago my HDDs would drop out at random during heavy write loads, after a while I narrowed down the cause to some dodgy SATA power cables, which sadly I could not replace at the time. Due to the hardware issue I could not scrub the filesystem successfully either. However I managed to recover all my data to a separate BTRFS filesystem, using some "restore" utility that was mentioned in the docs, and to the best of my knowledge all the recovered data was intact.

While that past error required a separate filesystem to perform the recovery, my most recent hardware issue with drives dropping out didn't need any recovery at all - after resolving the hardware issue (a loose power connection) BTRFS pretty much fixed itself during a scheduled scrub and spat out all the repairs in dmesg.

I would suggest enabling some kind of monitoring on BTRFS's counters if you haven't, because the fs will do whatever it can to prevent interruption to operations. In my previous two cases, performance was pretty much unaffected, and I only noticed the hardware problems due to the scheduled scrub & balance taking longer or failing.

Don't run a fsck - BTRFS essentially does this to itself during filesystem operations, such as a scrub or a file read. The provided btrfs check tool (fsck) is for the internal B-tree structure specifically AFAIK, and irreversably modifies the filesystem internally in a way that can cause unrecoverable data loss if the user does not know what they are doing. Instead of running fsck, run a scrub - it's an online operation that can be done while the filesystem is still mounted

Btrfs has come a long way in the last few years. I have been using it for a little over 5 years and its rock solid. It now powers all my bare metal machines and I use Raid 1 on my servers.

There was one time I had a disk unexpectedly go bad (it started returning bad data on read) which lead to the system going read only. It took me about 5min to swap disks and it was fine. Needless to say I was impressed that no data was lost.

Btrfs will normally won't get corrupted unless you have a hardware issue. It uses cow so writes can never be half competed. If you do manage to get corruption you can use btrfs check.

There is btrfs-check --repair to fix corruption

Several years ago now. On at least two of those tries, after maybe a month or some of daily driving, suddenly the fs goes totally unresponsive and because it’s the entire system, could only reboot. FS is corrupted and won’t recover. There is no fsck. There is no recovery. Total data loss.

Could you narrow it down to just how long ago? BTRFS took a very long time to stabilise, so that could possibly make a difference here. Also, do you remember if you were using any special features, especially RAID, and if RAID, which level?