Reduced visibility while driving is absolutely a lack of safety.

The feeling of power and safety, itself, has utility. Feelings matter.

No argument that there's been an active propaganda campaign to make people in smaller cars feel less safe, but propaganda works. You can't just dismiss it.

Which is offset by the lack of safety regulation

Citation needed. SUVs tend to be modern which would generally have stricter safety regulations

high center of mass, heavier weight to crush the cabin in a rollover

I wouldn't have though that rollovers are a common cause of deaths or serious injuries in cars. The higher center of gravity is going to be offset by the wider wheel base, so it depends on the car.

Traction seems like a much bigger problem, although many SUVs solve this with bigger wheels.

and much higher likelihood of running over your own kids.

Agree 100%

Stop spreading propaganda by cherry picking,

Look, fuck SUVs, obviously. If you aren't a psychopath you should not feel safe driving those things. My point was specifically about the physics of collisions. What you're bringing up can't be answered with physics because it depends on the details of the car, we need real world statistics to continue this conversation.