I appreciate your point. I wouldn't have thought that "small boobs" is offensive or insensitive in the context of calling someone hot, but I realize I'm being swayed by what I find attractive versus by what others might feel when they hear the term, especially those with boobs. I think for me the lesson here is to err on the side of using safe and affirming language when describing culturally sensitive things. The things we learn on lemmynsfw :)