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What are your favourite transfem tips and tricks? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 2 years ago by to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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Hiya girlies!

Today I'd love for us to share the little tips and tricks that you're proud of, things that help you feel like the best version of you! It could be about anything, makeup, hair, hair removal, voice, mannerisms, diet, exercise, fashion, whatever you learned that had a positive impact on your life that could help another girlie learning who she wants to be!

Something I've been particularly enjoying recently is finding ladies I particularly admire in media and copying the things they say, trying to match their intonation and expression. I know it's not an original idea but it can be super fun and very satisfying when you get it right! :3

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[–] 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

So, uh... I'm a cis guy, but I kinda wonder if maybe you girls have any tips that could make my face look less fat when I go clean shaven. I think I look fine with my beard; without it, my face looks so much fatter than with the beard. I wanna look more feminine, but just in the face.

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  • [–] 1 point 2 years ago

    Well I don't know you or your habits but when I eat salty stuff like chips my face balloons.

    Plan a two week period where you leave out the salty stuff and you'll see that you'll look considerably slimmer. In fact due to the water loss you'll lose a lot of weight too.

    When taking pictures it might feel artificial but just stick your head out to the front, which will separate your head more from your neck on the photo. Maybe try it with some selfies. Also looking up can help, and take the picture from above.

    Also it is OK to have goals/directions but I advocate for self acceptance at every point, including right now. It's not what you wear but how you wear it. Being authentic and comfortable with yourself is way more attractive than anything you can do with your body.

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