▲ 1300 ▼ Feels good to win boys (lemmy.world) submitted 3 years ago by Moc@lemmy.world to c/lemmyshitpost@lemmy.world 78 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com -2 points 3 years ago (1 child) The toxic beliefs that are taught are part of the trauma. Sorry i punched you in the face, i thought it was okay because daddy did it permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Pretty much... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com -1 points 3 years ago (1 child) Excuses permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) Explanations aren't excuses, and without explanations we can't fix the problem. Villainizing can be useful and certainly feels good but it doesn't accomplish much else. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) If you're looking at this pic and thinking it describes a normal relationshio dynamic, yeah, it's being used as an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) If you look through my comments in this thread you'll see that nowhere have I said anything like that. In fact at one point I said that neither adult in a relationship should get to dictate where the other person sleeps. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago I know you didn't. I'm not accusing you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] demlet@lemmy.world 3 points 3 years ago (1 child) Pretty much... permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com -1 points 3 years ago (1 child) Excuses permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) Explanations aren't excuses, and without explanations we can't fix the problem. Villainizing can be useful and certainly feels good but it doesn't accomplish much else. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) If you're looking at this pic and thinking it describes a normal relationshio dynamic, yeah, it's being used as an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) If you look through my comments in this thread you'll see that nowhere have I said anything like that. In fact at one point I said that neither adult in a relationship should get to dictate where the other person sleeps. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago I know you didn't. I'm not accusing you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com -1 points 3 years ago (1 child) Excuses permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) Explanations aren't excuses, and without explanations we can't fix the problem. Villainizing can be useful and certainly feels good but it doesn't accomplish much else. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) If you're looking at this pic and thinking it describes a normal relationshio dynamic, yeah, it's being used as an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) If you look through my comments in this thread you'll see that nowhere have I said anything like that. In fact at one point I said that neither adult in a relationship should get to dictate where the other person sleeps. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago I know you didn't. I'm not accusing you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) Explanations aren't excuses, and without explanations we can't fix the problem. Villainizing can be useful and certainly feels good but it doesn't accomplish much else. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) If you're looking at this pic and thinking it describes a normal relationshio dynamic, yeah, it's being used as an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) If you look through my comments in this thread you'll see that nowhere have I said anything like that. In fact at one point I said that neither adult in a relationship should get to dictate where the other person sleeps. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago I know you didn't. I'm not accusing you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago (1 child) If you're looking at this pic and thinking it describes a normal relationshio dynamic, yeah, it's being used as an excuse. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) If you look through my comments in this thread you'll see that nowhere have I said anything like that. In fact at one point I said that neither adult in a relationship should get to dictate where the other person sleeps. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago I know you didn't. I'm not accusing you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] demlet@lemmy.world 2 points 3 years ago (1 child) If you look through my comments in this thread you'll see that nowhere have I said anything like that. In fact at one point I said that neither adult in a relationship should get to dictate where the other person sleeps. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago I know you didn't. I'm not accusing you. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 3 years ago I know you didn't. I'm not accusing you. permalink fedilink source parent
