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[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de -4 points 2 years ago (2 children) Ideally without the transphobic shit. permalink fedilink source hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) I don't think using someone's own insecurities against them because they were a jerk is quite the same as being truly hurtful to people who are actually going through mental distress. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Or is the former just being used as a cover for the latter? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Sure, maybe they're just jerky to everyone, but making prejudiced presuppositions is the same stereotyping that everyone should avoid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Former means first :p permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yeah, but it doesn't change at all how I responded. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help understanding the response. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent [–] HawlSera@lemm.ee -4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Challenging the gender identity of a cisperson is not transphobic permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) yes that is a whole different kind of being an asshole. You don't get to cHaLLeNge the gender identity of anyone but yourself. the things said about the made up sexual encounter are clearly ment to demean or embarass the other person. Hence why it is transphobic. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] SargPotTea@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) But that's exactly the point. The dudes claiming he slept with her when he didnt. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Your reply has nothing to do with my comment? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Malfeasant@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago Turnabout is fair play... permalink fedilink source parent [–] HawlSera@lemm.ee -1 points 2 years ago The other person isn't trans though. It is meant to make a defamation attenpt backfire permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (1 child) I don't think using someone's own insecurities against them because they were a jerk is quite the same as being truly hurtful to people who are actually going through mental distress. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Or is the former just being used as a cover for the latter? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Sure, maybe they're just jerky to everyone, but making prejudiced presuppositions is the same stereotyping that everyone should avoid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Former means first :p permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yeah, but it doesn't change at all how I responded. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help understanding the response. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago (1 child) Or is the former just being used as a cover for the latter? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Sure, maybe they're just jerky to everyone, but making prejudiced presuppositions is the same stereotyping that everyone should avoid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Former means first :p permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yeah, but it doesn't change at all how I responded. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help understanding the response. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 1 point 2 years ago (1 child) Sure, maybe they're just jerky to everyone, but making prejudiced presuppositions is the same stereotyping that everyone should avoid. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Former means first :p permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yeah, but it doesn't change at all how I responded. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help understanding the response. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 point 2 years ago* (1 child) Former means first :p permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yeah, but it doesn't change at all how I responded. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help understanding the response. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] FizzlePopBerryTwist@lemmy.world 0 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yeah, but it doesn't change at all how I responded. Perhaps it is YOU who needs help understanding the response. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 2 points 2 years ago It might not change how you responded, but it does change how relevant it is to what I said. I didn't condone any prejudices presuppositions. I said maybe "using their insecurities against them" is just an excuse to be an asshole. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee -4 points 2 years ago (1 child) Challenging the gender identity of a cisperson is not transphobic permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) yes that is a whole different kind of being an asshole. You don't get to cHaLLeNge the gender identity of anyone but yourself. the things said about the made up sexual encounter are clearly ment to demean or embarass the other person. Hence why it is transphobic. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] SargPotTea@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) But that's exactly the point. The dudes claiming he slept with her when he didnt. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Your reply has nothing to do with my comment? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Malfeasant@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago Turnabout is fair play... permalink fedilink source parent [–] HawlSera@lemm.ee -1 points 2 years ago The other person isn't trans though. It is meant to make a defamation attenpt backfire permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago (2 children) yes that is a whole different kind of being an asshole. You don't get to cHaLLeNge the gender identity of anyone but yourself. the things said about the made up sexual encounter are clearly ment to demean or embarass the other person. Hence why it is transphobic. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [–] SargPotTea@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) But that's exactly the point. The dudes claiming he slept with her when he didnt. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Your reply has nothing to do with my comment? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Malfeasant@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago Turnabout is fair play... permalink fedilink source parent [–] HawlSera@lemm.ee -1 points 2 years ago The other person isn't trans though. It is meant to make a defamation attenpt backfire permalink fedilink source parent
[–] SargPotTea@lemmy.world -1 points 2 years ago (1 child) But that's exactly the point. The dudes claiming he slept with her when he didnt. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Your reply has nothing to do with my comment? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Malfeasant@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago Turnabout is fair play... permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.de 3 points 2 years ago (1 child) Your reply has nothing to do with my comment? permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] Malfeasant@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago Turnabout is fair play... permalink fedilink source parent
[–] Malfeasant@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago Turnabout is fair play... permalink fedilink source parent
[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee -1 points 2 years ago The other person isn't trans though. It is meant to make a defamation attenpt backfire permalink fedilink source parent