▲ 490 ▼ Gen Z is turned off by onscreen sex, wants no-mance over romance, a new study finds (www.latimes.com) submitted 2 years ago by wilberfan@lemmy.world to c/movies@lemmy.world 320 comments fedilink hide all child comments
[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 child) Yeah, that's nothing to do with porn, and everything to do with the awkwardness of your coworkers talking about banging their spouses at work. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 2 child comments replies: [–] pulaskiwasright@lemmy.ml 38 points 2 years ago* (2 children) that’s incredibly prudish to not even want someone to say they’re trying for a baby. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] Dkarma@lemmy.world -15 points 2 years ago Keep ur personal life to yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [+] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world -20 points 2 years ago (3 children) It's weird for two reasons. One, if you struggle to get pregnant it puts a lot of external pressure on you and you'll have to go back and let people know you're potentially infertile. Two, talking about biological things isn't appropriate in some settings. I don't want to hear about your colonoscopy. I don't want to hear that you're raw dogging your wife. I don't want to hear about you surgery. Sir, this is a Wendy's. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] pulaskiwasright@lemmy.ml 24 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) That sounds lonely. We all live together. Sharing is a much better default than walling everyone off and judging everyone for sharing really basic parts of life is kind of sad. Obviously there are limit, but “we’re trying to have a baby” and “I’m having surgery” shouldn’t be something that we’re pressured to not share. permalink fedilink source parent [–] tryptaminev@feddit.de 12 points 2 years ago I find it more weird that your coworkes talking about trying to get a child results in you imagening them "raw dogging". When one of my coworkers had a child born i also didn't make a point of imagening the delivery process. I just congratulated them and asked them jokingly how much sleep they caught the last night. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Historical_General@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pulaskiwasright@lemmy.ml 38 points 2 years ago* (2 children) that’s incredibly prudish to not even want someone to say they’re trying for a baby. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 4 child comments replies: [+] Dkarma@lemmy.world -15 points 2 years ago Keep ur personal life to yourself. permalink fedilink source parent [+] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world -20 points 2 years ago (3 children) It's weird for two reasons. One, if you struggle to get pregnant it puts a lot of external pressure on you and you'll have to go back and let people know you're potentially infertile. Two, talking about biological things isn't appropriate in some settings. I don't want to hear about your colonoscopy. I don't want to hear that you're raw dogging your wife. I don't want to hear about you surgery. Sir, this is a Wendy's. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] pulaskiwasright@lemmy.ml 24 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) That sounds lonely. We all live together. Sharing is a much better default than walling everyone off and judging everyone for sharing really basic parts of life is kind of sad. Obviously there are limit, but “we’re trying to have a baby” and “I’m having surgery” shouldn’t be something that we’re pressured to not share. permalink fedilink source parent [–] tryptaminev@feddit.de 12 points 2 years ago I find it more weird that your coworkes talking about trying to get a child results in you imagening them "raw dogging". When one of my coworkers had a child born i also didn't make a point of imagening the delivery process. I just congratulated them and asked them jokingly how much sleep they caught the last night. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Historical_General@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[+] Dkarma@lemmy.world -15 points 2 years ago Keep ur personal life to yourself. permalink fedilink source parent
[+] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world -20 points 2 years ago (3 children) It's weird for two reasons. One, if you struggle to get pregnant it puts a lot of external pressure on you and you'll have to go back and let people know you're potentially infertile. Two, talking about biological things isn't appropriate in some settings. I don't want to hear about your colonoscopy. I don't want to hear that you're raw dogging your wife. I don't want to hear about you surgery. Sir, this is a Wendy's. permalink fedilink source parent hideshow 6 child comments replies: [–] pulaskiwasright@lemmy.ml 24 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) That sounds lonely. We all live together. Sharing is a much better default than walling everyone off and judging everyone for sharing really basic parts of life is kind of sad. Obviously there are limit, but “we’re trying to have a baby” and “I’m having surgery” shouldn’t be something that we’re pressured to not share. permalink fedilink source parent [–] tryptaminev@feddit.de 12 points 2 years ago I find it more weird that your coworkes talking about trying to get a child results in you imagening them "raw dogging". When one of my coworkers had a child born i also didn't make a point of imagening the delivery process. I just congratulated them and asked them jokingly how much sleep they caught the last night. permalink fedilink source parent [+] Historical_General@lemm.ee 1 point 2 years ago [deleted] permalink fedilink source parent
[–] pulaskiwasright@lemmy.ml 24 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) That sounds lonely. We all live together. Sharing is a much better default than walling everyone off and judging everyone for sharing really basic parts of life is kind of sad. Obviously there are limit, but “we’re trying to have a baby” and “I’m having surgery” shouldn’t be something that we’re pressured to not share. permalink fedilink source parent
[–] tryptaminev@feddit.de 12 points 2 years ago I find it more weird that your coworkes talking about trying to get a child results in you imagening them "raw dogging". When one of my coworkers had a child born i also didn't make a point of imagening the delivery process. I just congratulated them and asked them jokingly how much sleep they caught the last night. permalink fedilink source parent