You know for someone who acts like they care about "civil debate", you certainly don't engage in good-faith.

Lol what a lazy response. Just straight to trolling and whataboutism, no nuance in your thought.

You might want to reevaluate how you think about yourself as a "generally nice" person. This isn't how nice people talk to others.

You said above:

That wasn’t very nice. I’d like to think I’m a generally kind person.

Now you're calling someone a bigot when they said nothing bigoted. I guess when you said you were kind, it was a lie.