Can I ask you what instance did you use?

Not Matrix, the server you were using.

There's a reason even the Matrix organization tells you to choose a different server than matrix.org if you can.

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I have not had this issue on Matrix.org ever since I had an account, I don't use it much but I use it occasionally and yeah, no issues. This seems to be an instance related problem rather than a matrix one